i just wanted to read ur comment but i ended up receiving a life advice and cried a little. ╥﹏╥
In relief, I hope......? Of you need someone to talk to, you can reach out to me. I won't mind. :)
Yes totally, I felt warm inside I am doing fine though no worries. (=・ω・=)
Offer stands whenever you feel the need. :]
fk this hit so deep. i couldn’t help but cry bc it really hit so deep. thank you random stranger.
Crying is good. It leaves space for healing. :)
yes, you’re right. thank you meru21 sensei
You're welcome. Take care of yourself. It's deserved.
...is a Super Junior fan!!! Go girl! Get that poster! I'd be all over SuJu and SHINee merch if I had a store that sold it out here.
Another note: Akira, it's typical for a teenager to go through angst like that. To feel as though someone else has influenced you to the point where you're not sure if you like it because you genuinely do or because someone who seems to be your rock does is hard to figure out. But you distanced yourself from the rock. The thing you need to realize is that the ground is still there. if you're using phrases someone else used to help you in order to help someone else, its because you've learned the meaning of that phrase and that you're not so swallowed by your own angst that you can actually see past it to help someone. Its a step in the right direction. Depending on someone else emotionally, physically or financially Is never a healthy thing (well, unless you're a kid). You have to save yourself before holding your hand out to anyone else, or you'll never become independent. If you become dependant on someone for anything, how will you function when/if that person leaves? You can't guarantee they'll always be there, so you have to rely on yourself. Include them equally, yes, but know that you have the strength to do it all yourself. But in doing this, it's a mistake to push away those you love and who care about you. You can have both. You can grow and change together. You just have to make the effort.