Yaoi kinks?

YES!

yeah I've found somebody too nice is too boring...but the ones I tend to really like to the point I get burned are the smooth talking manipulative bastards. Its that whole you KNOW its a bad idea but...

oh I wasn't offended...I was never really violent I just like to press buttons....a LOT its so much fun! :P

yeah...I've had a hard time finding that for some reason...although I've been isolated a lot so I haven't dated a ton...and I was a late bloomer...SUPER awkward up until like early twenties :P Pretty happy being single with like a manga boyfriend for a while :P Last guy I dated was SOOO sweet...and I found him kinda boring. And at the same time there's another guy who kept my head turned but I'm smart enough to realize THAT'S not gonna end well...so we're back to the manga boyfriend thing

Well, I used to bully the one I liked, but later I just ignored my crushes ;_; Now I can be pretty mean to my friends, I pick on them and stuff, but they should feel special- that's a sign I like them...

Yeah, I want men to be dominant, but I can't really admit it due to my feminism.

I know what you mean...where are you from if you don't mind my asking? Curious

You just described my love life in a nutshell... I just wish I could fall for one of the nice guys... But they're always too nice and it ends up pissing me off... The guy I'm seeing now I've known since high school (so I probably kicked him in the nuts at some point) and he's so sweet and he's well-adjusted and quite functional and good in other... areas... But I'm still just like, "Where's the spark?" I want someone I can be mean to... And who can be mean to me... And then passionate hate sex ensues... lol

It's the story of my life. My last crush was a manipulative sociopath.

Lol yeah I hear ya. There is a lot of power in submission too though, that takes a lot of trust and the other person has to earn that trust and respect too. I pick on my friends all the time...they've figured out that its a sign of affection. I ignore people I dislike...I've had to figure out who I can pick on and who gets hurt feelings. My sister is SOOOO easily hurt and that bitch can hold grudges like nobody's business :P And she gets even...Empathy is a very helpful tool in social interactions.

lol yeah I need funny. There's this guy that is one of my best friends cause we both decided dating would end horrendously and he's SOOOO funny and I do really like him but I'm sorry a 30 year old should be a tad more mature...Jesus the idiot just broke a leg in a maush pit a few months ago. But he's so much fun its a pity he's still a kid.

I didn't mean to hide it ^^ I'm from Poland (central Europe, between Germany and, let's say, Russia).

I just looked up the flag by your username. lol I was about to be like, "You're from Poland? Awesome!"

Yeah the one with the 16 year age difference. That guy I'm pretty sure wanted the conquest and he could talk his way out of ANYTHING he was incredibly good at that. My first broken heart and sometimes I still kinda miss him...and then I get over it :P To be honest I'm pretty picky...there's no religious thing behind it but I'm still carrying my V-card...at this point I'm pretty cautious...

oh gosh I completely missed the flag lol. Poland that's awesome I have neighbors from Poland. Some of the funniest people I have ever met. Super sweet...ish Andy calls everybody stupid but he doesn't mean any harm with it...

Oh, I fell for a nice guy once. And he's been the greatest love of my life. But, you know, he was just too nice, so of course I had to crush him. I deserve spanking.

Omg! That's hilarious! It's a shame, but that still cracks me up. The last guy I fell in love with was somewhat similar. He was ridiculously funny and we laughed so much... He was so gorgeous, too... But so emotionally immature... He didn't know how to be on his own... He had to be in a relationship at all times, it seemed... And he was so superficial and self-involved... It was such a shame....

yeah that last one I feel like a dick about. To be honest I'd have given it more of a chance if I hadn't gotten diagnosed with Diabetes and been super stressed out. We weren't quite official and I found out freaked out and broke it off the next day. And then became a hermit for a few months...and it was just not good. But I don't see it lasting...

I don't think there's anything awesome in being from Poland, but thank you ^^

I am so proud of you for that! That's amazing...

Tony is still a partier...and I mean I love the guy and he's a fantastic friend but I'd kinda like someone who can take care of himself at least. A diabetic should NOT drink like that...I know this...I suck at flirting too...I tend to be pretty straightforward and then get friendzoned. Its all a work in progress heh