I agree 100%. Getting married let alone having kids is a huge decision, it annoys me how they are trying to rush her. She’s the one who will be giving birth, so she should be the one to decide when and even if she wants to
She wasn't even taking that long? Like the other characters are reacting like her and Taemu have been dating for years. Has it even been a year? A half a year? Its been a few months right?
EXACTLY MY THOUGHT. Couples normally take years to decide that, they dated like few months. And also her friend annoys me acting like it’s her fault she can’t get married when she should be on her mans ass about how he follows his bosses outrageous orders like some lost puppy. Like it’s yours goddamn marriage, stop pushing your friend to lifetime decisions that she’s not sure of just because u can’t control your own boyfriend. On Hari’s place I would’ve just been like “That’s not my problem” and end of conversation. I really admire her patience.
Yeah the secretary needs to stand up for himself a LOT more about that.
Yeah, its like he’s simping for his boss
So...he gets sick. She gets called about it?? Not his grandson, his grandson's girlfriend?? And being the caring person she is she rushes to his side. Then he pulls such bullshit.
He is being manipulative. He has tried again and again to push his grandson with the "I want grandkids before I die" narrative and look at how well it worked. All it did was create the issues that Hari is wrestling with from the first place.
Grandpa says that Taemu was always alone, but if things had gone according to Taemu's original plan he would be in a loveless marriage. Instead he pushed and pushed to be in said loveless marriage just so that his grandpa would leave him be. But thankfully managed to be in what is now a loving relationship.
He can wait on Hari to bring up marriage now because he loves her and wants to be with her. He understands that such a decision is a big step and understands how unfair it was for him to be so pushy about it earlier. His once cold and business minded grandson smiles so happily at the thought of his girlfriend. How the grandpa can't see that I will never know.
But back to the top of my argument. He is offering a marriage ultimatum to a girlfriend who apparently cares enough about his grandson to come running to the bedside of his sick grandfather. How many girlfriends would do that? How many would not first try and contact an actual family member first? No, she went herself because she loves Taemu and his family. I hope Taemu gets mad on her behalf because I'd bet this will make her despair. Being on the receiving end of that sort of behavior from your boyfreind grandfather who you thought you got along with must hurt alot!