Ugh

Reading some of these comments make me rage. As a person with PTSD, who had been bullied in the work place, sexually traumatized, and been in toxic relationships...could I have taken the route Kan-chan did? Yes. Definitely yes. It doesn't excuse his use of violence against his partner, but it explains the slow build up to it and the suffering he had over causing of it.

Does he deserve happiness? Do I? I think the answer is yes again. We are both survivors and coped the best way we knew how. Some may say that's why I get into toxic relationships and maybe so it is. But where does suffering end? Who are you to rob someone of their happiness? Life has already given out enough crappy hands. It's about time to be dealt a nice one, yeah? And I refuse to call myself a victim cuz I keep one foot going forward. I am a survivor