Duuude... good fucking job on recognizing it and managing to extract yourself from that situation. Its not easy... its fun to read these kind of plots but its totally different (and not romantic) in real life and in practice.
Fucking scary. Fiction ig it’s entertaining but in real life it’s so obsessive and scary. Ppl might think they want a “possessive man” but actually being with someone like that isn’t fun.
Also imagine what it would be like to try to visit and see your family. Or have kids with the guy.
He most likely would have huge problem with it and also you don’t want your kid growing up with someone like that
Yeah man... I swear I attack those type of behaviours.... An ex broken my window cause I didn't want to see him. Another would send 15x text if I don't reply. Ooh also got a dude who stalked me and pestered my fams/friends to get to me.... People be crazy... And it's not cute.
Brrr....obsessive men are scary...I don't mind if they are a little possessive but not to the point that they monitor every single movement...
Whoa..... thanks for the advice
Did you call the police? Lol
Are you doing well now? Please stay safe
Well, physically I'm doing well.. I'm already far from him, i moved out with my fam and last time i opened my fb he's about to get married i think and I'm like i hope his gf knows him well, last year Nov i even receive an invitation, no way I will see him again
My relationship with him ended like 5 years ago so i already moved on but i still have that impression on him
Just that one note that you are physically doing ok makes me feel like you are not. PLEASE stay safe and hopefuly everything gets better for you, becose this kind of trauma can mess you un for a long time. You will be ok and there are people tthat care about you. I know that i am just a stranger on the internet, but still i send you all the hugs in the world.
HE INVITED YOU TO THR WEDDING?! Scary!!
Bruh this plot brought back memories of my ex doing the same things...i remember we argue about where and who tf did i call to the 1min that was gone in the call promo load i registered which is 20mins free call (i talked to him for the 19mins) during the time we're in ldr, my every move is monitored, i remember him picking me up at the dorm in uni every single week where he need to drive 5hrs just to make me go home every weekends and also i remember when he declined to work abroad because of me, he said he need assurance to make me not run away from him like making me pregnant, he even won the approval of my family and grandma even til now my grandma still pestering me about him
all the little things i need to tell him everything it's like both of his hands are on my neck and I've been with him for almost 4 years or should i say it took me 4 years to completely get him out of my life
If you're in a toxic with obsessive and possessive partner, run for your life