Uhm the thing is, uke in this manga doesn’t seem to have stopper, so the play is super dangerous
Correct. I do wish the author did some extensive research on the topic before coming out with this as a lot of people who read this are likely young and impressionable. They won't know that this is actually a dangerous way to do BDSM and safe words + aftercare is extremely important.
yeah! i was so triggered when i saw him chocke uke win some way be it hands or with the collar.....this is not ok!
trust. the sub needs to be able to trust that the dom will STOP if you say the safe word and the dom has to trust that the sub will SAY the safeword IMMDETIATELY when he feels uncomfortable and no longer a cozy mix of pleasure-pain!