.... I have no idea what you said but thumbs up
From heat I remember their relationship was a big of emotional minipilulation... the the other guy was like "if your not here than I'm not here " but in the I'll be dead way? I remember feeling weird about the supposed boyfriend? Could be wrong?
well he kinda put yool in a dead end, a sort of "i might die if you're not with me", (a kinda not-on-purpose-threat" of killing himself if he wasn't with yool) thats a very toxic and selfish thing to do, and yool feel forced to be in this relationship bc he knows that his bf really means it, even if the bf didnt say it on purpose. yool is very kind and is the type of person that stays with this person bc he is putting his lover's hapinness before his. i think thats also why his love for his bf left. yool isn't happy bc he probably thought that putting his man before himself would make him happy, but in reality its impossible to be fully happy by just watching someone's happiness, bc youre not fulfilling yours you know ? haha kinda wrote a novel here but i went through the exact same relationship so i understand him in every way as i feel soo good now that i'm finally single, i hope that what i've said made sense haha
Yeah emotional manipulation of suicide is crippling, it made me stay friends with someone who genuinely wasn't good for me and then have an abusive relationship for years because I was afraid he'd off himself. But I'm more confused about what op was trying to say because I couldn't figure out what the second half of the comment meant.
oh the bf is def not a nice person hes very selfish and while i wont say he forced yool into his situation his words definitely pushed yool into making the decisions he currently regrets
the way i see the boyfriend (anxiety/anger issues ?), i think he propably knows how to use his words. If he knows well yool, that means he also knows what yool can do for him and by choosing these words, he's also choosing manipulation. and thats how he forced him. But, if he's truly a crybaby with no "real intentions" then yeah he's just toxic for our baby yool and nothin more
yea that and he KNOWS yool gave up his dreams and is following his fathers path for him and yet he cant return half the sincerity back ??hes living his dreams with his bf's upmost support but hes okay with his bf slowly killing himself in law school ? imagine someone you apparently love being forced to do something they dont want and have to give up their dreams and you threaten to kys if they break up with you
exactly + i totally forgot that part with the father. this is high level toxicity here, hope yool will have the courage to break up with him without regrets and open his heart to our precious yechan (づ￣ ³￣)づ i want him to finally be happy so bad, he deserves so much love
we still haven’t seen the boyfriend do anything wrong unless i’ve lost my memory so i personally don’t want the ham dating mr country guy