I read this the second time after finishing it a year ago. When I first read it, I was somewhat able to feel sympathy and forgave the seme. But I can't believe I was such a moron.
How could I even think of forgiving him when he only apologised to that one uke that changed his life. If he regrets what he did to all those people he played with, he should seek an apology to e v e r y SINGLE one of them.
Depending on what he did, he deserves more punishment. I mean, of course, I'm not one to decide whether to forgive him or not. But I came to realise that maybe he does want things to go his way after all.
He fell ill as to being malnutrition. And that was because of him being a stupid egoistic person causing the uke to leave him. And he had the NERVE to seek for him after calling him a subordinate. And then fell ill because he misses the uke. And fainted and caused trouble for everyone. He brings nothing but disgrace.
2nd chance? Don't give me that crap lmAo. The seme only needs to apologise and get his face out of the uke face. ThaT's it. The decision is up to the uke.
The uke is also way too on edge. Can't you see that it's NOT your fault the guy fainted?? All that happened because of him. HE, with that ego of his thought that EVERYTHING would go his way. That's why he didn't think twice when he was hurting you. It is okay to forgive and forget.
But 2nd chance is a different matter. You don't have to give it another go if you forgive him. I had wished that the uke would find someone else :( and let it be a lesson for that self-centred and narrow-minded seme.
Damn, I wrote way too much. It's not like he doesn't deserve forgiveness, but a second chance is not apart of it. Because 2nd chance is literally as if you're asking the person you're apologising to, to do you a favour. Which is not very sincere. It is only up to the person to think and decide whether to give it another go or not.
This advice is also meant for during your time irl. I'm sorry if I sound mad. But truthfully, I'm just here to spread some words. If you are sincere about ur words of apology, then don't give excuses or victim blame. Don't ASK for 2nd chance or 3rd or so on. Don't harass the person you want to apologise with your letters or message of apology. Meet them in person and if they don't want, then try another time. Don't try approaching them again on the same day cuz that's just rushing it. Wait until the next time and meet them again and apologize. Take things slowly and you'll sure make it. If they already know about your apology and still doesn't want to see you. Just stop. Don't force them to forgive you. It's only right for them to decide. :D
I read this the second time after finishing it a year ago. When I first read it, I was somewhat able to feel sympathy and forgave the seme. But I can't believe I was such a moron.
How could I even think of forgiving him when he only apologised to that one uke that changed his life. If he regrets what he did to all those people he played with, he should seek an apology to e v e r y SINGLE one of them.
Depending on what he did, he deserves more punishment. I mean, of course, I'm not one to decide whether to forgive him or not. But I came to realise that maybe he does want things to go his way after all.
He fell ill as to being malnutrition. And that was because of him being a stupid egoistic person causing the uke to leave him. And he had the NERVE to seek for him after calling him a subordinate. And then fell ill because he misses the uke. And fainted and caused trouble for everyone. He brings nothing but disgrace.
2nd chance? Don't give me that crap lmAo. The seme only needs to apologise and get his face out of the uke face. ThaT's it. The decision is up to the uke.
The uke is also way too on edge. Can't you see that it's NOT your fault the guy fainted?? All that happened because of him. HE, with that ego of his thought that EVERYTHING would go his way. That's why he didn't think twice when he was hurting you. It is okay to forgive and forget.
But 2nd chance is a different matter. You don't have to give it another go if you forgive him. I had wished that the uke would find someone else :( and let it be a lesson for that self-centred and narrow-minded seme.
Damn, I wrote way too much. It's not like he doesn't deserve forgiveness, but a second chance is not apart of it. Because 2nd chance is literally as if you're asking the person you're apologising to, to do you a favour. Which is not very sincere. It is only up to the person to think and decide whether to give it another go or not.
This advice is also meant for during your time irl. I'm sorry if I sound mad. But truthfully, I'm just here to spread some words. If you are sincere about ur words of apology, then don't give excuses or victim blame. Don't ASK for 2nd chance or 3rd or so on. Don't harass the person you want to apologise with your letters or message of apology. Meet them in person and if they don't want, then try another time. Don't try approaching them again on the same day cuz that's just rushing it. Wait until the next time and meet them again and apologize. Take things slowly and you'll sure make it. If they already know about your apology and still doesn't want to see you. Just stop. Don't force them to forgive you. It's only right for them to decide. :D