Okay uh...

even if not opposed to hwi the last thing to applaude han for is consent

Mr Han's "consent" seems calculated to me, Param has never needed Hwi to ask him for consent cos he knows Hwi is genuinely kind unlike some people

I was thinking the same thing!! It struck me as so odd he just kept "checking in" like that, as if he was actually saying "see, see how gentle I am? See how much of a good person I am?? I'm asking for c o n s e n t multiple times!!". It felt super manipulative,like he wants us to believe he wants only the best for param, we know the truth tho #－.－)

also han consent just comes after he forced himself onto param a chapter ago, if he cared about his consent he would have gave up the moment param was pushing him away but he pressured him more and more, it’s pretty laughable asking for it now that he got what he wanted. Hwi consent at the other side always came from a genuine care, he always made sure param was comfortable and when param asked him to wait once he stopped immediately and waited, THAT is consent

EXACTLY. the consent aspect almost felt forced if that made sense ....... so he could hold param against saying that he wanted it or smthng. i hate mr hans manipulative and toxic ass i will never applaud his bare minimum asking for consent （￣へ￣）

Ooooooof that's such a good point! He really did push him till the edge until he got what he wanted and then plays the gentleman

Also how he points out “I would never want u to feel like I’m forcing u” like to make param forget how actually forceful he was ?? han well self aware how pushy he acted, it really sounded like he was trying to coax param into thinking the opposite rip (and oc it worked cause param is dumb but anyway)

And it's also super interesting how he's doing this super "heartfelt" monologue while param is horny level 1000 and has a dick right in front of him, as if he's thinking rationally right now? People do rlly slutty things while they're horny that even they might not agree with after the fact.
So it's like let's not forget han forced a kiss on param twice,coerced him in the office which could have gone rlly badly and taunted him all this time, and he's a good person all of a sudden cause he asked for consent ONCE??
Nah, I'm calling whole man disposal services

this !!!! exactly what I keep saying week after week, han has already a whole record of shit he did, both to param and to his ex, but then he asks for consent (that wasn’t even that consensual) once that would be the BARE minimum and now he’s a good guy ?? he was never a good guy since chapter one, if at the beginning u could have given him the benefit of the doubt now it’s just so obvious how trash he is

Preach it
I really don't understand this mindset of "they're both consenting adults who are single ,I don't see the problem!!"
There are a TON of problems here and it's not necessarily about Hwi,it's all about Han's character,his actions and his behaviour along with Param's weakness to pleasure and his naivety honestly.
But han is a bad apple through and through and nothing anyone says with change that for me

fr guess ppl feel quirky or something to say no one here did nothing wrong, they all adult young wild and free etc.. like STOP
param fucked up knowing he would have regretted what he was doing but gave up to his horny ass, he needs to grow up and learn actions has consequences and Han is a manipulative trash hiding behind a gentleman facade. Deal with it, everyone is free to like every character but u need to accept their mistakes and stop justify everything they do

Totally agree

YAAAAASSSS !! everything everything everting in this thread >>>>> !!
Han’s lowkey gaslighting behavior that gets buried under his use of the word “consent”. Like ew he’s just dirty through and through.

and people even after 40 chapters still bring up the first two chapters where hwi was a jerk trying to make han seem less of an asshole, like there’s literally nothing to compare between them just stop

literally they do not even compare.