Thank you. Thank you, really. This is everything ppl have to understand. It’s not about hating on Param or acting like semes are better or slut shaming. Param can fuck whoever he wants to, but he literally messed up deliberately all the signals he gave Hwi. Like I’m not saying to k!ll him for that but I don’t see a problem in being disappointed with what he did lmao
fr, the blackmail thing didn’t even come into act, it was more like a threat that got lost in 2 chapters or somethin? also I went to reread the first time param and hwi got intimate in the gym and despite the tension between them hwi the moment param asked him to wait he asked him if param wanted him to stop, there stil weren’t any kind of feelings involved but even if maybe a bit stretched it looked consensual.
Han is simply inexcusable?? It was easy for him asking for consent after forcing himself on param until a chapter ago, also all the shit he did until now? people seems so forgetful with him, but not with hwi lol double standards
I completely agree about param, if he was confused about his feelings towards them he could have take some time, also how he said one moment how he hated han for what he did to him and that he liked someone else but a moment later he just gave up to his last I get he was manipulated but it’s still a no for me
also han didn’t ask for consent at all when he took advantage of drunk param to kiss him, to just harass him at work some chapters later -
Even after this I feel hwi will struggle a lot to trust param again, like param himself slept with han despite having feelings for hwi, what will give hwi the security he won’t do it again. He deserved better

so han has a whole record of shit he did until now but he asked for some kind of consent once so it’s okay, while hwi is one of the most unbothered and heathy semes in bl but was a jerk for 2 chapters in the beginning so shame on him forever? okay