they mean on how sometimes in villainess stories and a women reincarnates into a villainess body,they are always trying to influence the ML to not be a Tryant or to stop killing people and just talk it out and let the court figure out there punishment... and the people in the kingdom might feel as though she is trying to make the ML someone he’s not and plus her whole thing of her being a villainess tops up for her trying to “brainwash” the ML since she has such a bad background. when in fact the ML really does need to change bit of their behavior.
SAME THOUGHT. I was exactly thinking this while reading and I can't focus on the story because I feel like they're the 'main leads' in a villainess isekai manhwa and it gives me a different view on them ༎‿༎. Because first of all FL is kind, beautiful, talented, loved by the people around her, righteous personality, ML fall for her easily: typical characteristics of the 'fl of a novel in a villainess isekai manhwa'. There's many more but yeah lol.

our FL seems like the type of FL to be in a villainess story. like the type of mary sue character that the villainess is sent away for. or like "brainwashing" the ML of the story. this literally makes zero sense goodbye.