Umm . The sub is retaliating at all ??
Which is why the Dom does whatever he wants . And no matter how u look at it any kind of SM relationship is far from normal .Of course trust is important but it isn't like the Dom is threatning, blackmailing or locking up the Sub or something .And being possessive and mean is a part of a Dom's nature .
Let's go straight. In a SM relationship, it's be simply idiotic to expect a Dom to be loving,soft and fluffy .
not true ! aftercare is important and should NEVER be left out. this is for the mental state of both the sub and the dom. being possessive and mean is NOT apart of a dom's nature. maybe a hard dom, but that doesn't mean all doms. thats a really misunderstood narrative. and just because the dom isn't blackmailing the sub doesn't mean that the dom** should have an excuse to *presumably* not have a safe word/code or do aftercare. those are red flags if a top doesn't give you either of those* (u can read my recent reply on here about sadists, masochists, doms, subs, tops, and bottoms.)*
ALSO SOFT DOMS ARE VALID!!!! don't think that just because a dom isn't all hardcore that they're any less of a dom. doms can come in all types of forms, it's about expressing one's self, and not about fitting into a certain picture.
so let's please not excuse this 'dom' for presumably not having a safeword/code or aftercare because they're a 'dom' because that's just not true :)
** before i say 'top' I'm referring to the dom in the story.
Let’s also not forget it’s also a Dom’s part to keep an eye on their sub during play as well. Sometimes in subspace subs can lose the ability to think straight or talk so they lose the ability to safeword. The Dom should always keep an eye out in case he/she thinks something is going too far/something is going wrong and they can safeword himself/herself to stop the play or go to yellow where they continue but lessen it to ease the pressure. If there’s a Dom without a safeword or aftercare I would yeet our SO fast. AHHHH the manhwa just made me upset I really hope MC gets out of that toxic relationship
so happy to see educated people correcting the misconceptions of bdsm ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
Uhhhhhh, people don't have to reply to my comment btw. I was just feeling really bad at that time and I was just venting? It's fine if you disagree with what I said, but you don't have to reply to my comment, it's fine. Don't waste your time on my dumb comment lol ╮(￣▽￣)╭
only the first reply was disagreeing with you i'm pretty sure..
I was telling it to the future people who have a problem with my comment. I don't mind if people disagree or agree with me, but I don't see why they have time to comment on my post lol
because when you post comments people tend to reply when they have a response ? what lol
I meant as in, I thought people wouldn't care about my comment. It was just an insignificant comment, so I thought people would not pay attention to it
THIS AS WELL!!!! perfect explanations i swear TT
Screw the dom. As much as I like S&M relationships, at least they are based on trust, consent and care. The dom is just blatantly abusing his partner, what's even worse is that the sub probably won't even admit that he is being abused. I really hope that the sub does break this toxic and abusive relationship, because I absolutely felt disgusted with the way he treated the sub. The dom just leaves such a bad taste in my mouth. (╬￣皿￣)凸