
Not every abo universe works in the same way. We don't even know if resisting FATED MATE in this universe is possible. What's more every alpha can have different tolerance to pheromones like different people have different tolerance to alcohol. One will start acting like a fool after 1 beer and someone can drink few shots of vodka and you would never tell. Of course it's much more complicated but you can't blame him when it was clear he was deeply affected by the pheromones and couldn't think straight at all.

I guess you’re right. But u can’t also blame people if they hated Kaede cause just like u said, we all have different reaction or ‘tolerance’ in this kind of plots/stories. I guess people are way to immersed with Omegaverse stories where alphas can confidently resist to their instinct.
ps: i can totally see your point

The problem with omegaverses is that they are very different. Abo thing came from fanfiction world and it was also different than what we can see in webtoons. So it can be easy to get lost in all of that.
In some omegaverses male beta can be pregnant, in some don't. In some omegaverses omega after bonding can't sleep with anyone else, in some stories they can etc.

Yes but the thing is Azusa put Kaeda in very hard situation. Kaeda has two options: be with him or leave him.
If he leaves Azusa, he has to live with the knowledge that Azusa can't bond once again, that he has to go through his heats alone and it's especially hard on him because his mother was left by her mate and he knows how deeply it affects omega. His mother is mostly bedridden and even mistakes her/his (I'm still not sure if the mother is a woman or man) own son with his father.
And imo he is trying to be a good and responsible partner.
I want the see about how Azusa get a fated pair too. This is not fair only kaede get one. And if I was Azisa I could punch Kazusa's face ×10 times more because it's really.. I pussed off about how Kaede nearly marked another woman and now that fated mate. Fuck boy! Why you never resist to you own insists? He always just like "oh okay I'm a alpha so that's not can be helped that's my insists." Damn! He didnt even resist or wanted resist.