Same, finally someone who agrees.
We always adore the protagonists so much even if they still behave like bitches and consider them as strong but we don’t think of the story as having many sides, I believe that some characters are actually having it many folds what the main characters experience.
Who admires protagonists who cut off their lovers from their family (they care about and that isn’t toxic) for being strong? Like that’s toxic
But from the way she spoke he wasn’t totally a lover
I mean i know they were supposed to get married in the past life and all but that was not a love marriage, it was put like they were suitable for each other to get a more stable life and she felt like shuli was threatening
Well that’s even worse. She wanted to cut off her future husband she didn’t even have feelings for, from his family (just cause she felt threatened? It’s like cutting off your bf from any female friends, tho worse cause that’s family, cause u scare she will cheat on u). Again in which story this kind of protagonist is praised as strong? I read SO many and yet never this kind of toxic behavior was seen as okay
I can't even blame her, her life was also garbage and she needs to make sure she can finally have a place that is not always at threat bc of someone. That was still a bitch move, but I can't hate her for it. I hope she will develop into a happier person in this life