I accidentally pressed like sorry. Stop making the mom look like she is the villain she is not!! When you look at her perspective what she is doing is actually what a real parent should do. She is thinking what future is better for her son. If you were in her place what would you after hearing that your son would prefer to become a professional gamer after losing a match in a competition??! And what the fhuck you mean ahe is abusive? Just because she limits her children's action does not make her abusive she raised them well gave him all the gadjets to reward him. More like he is spoiled but idek why he is jealous and angry with our mc when he basically have everything anyone would want. He is so self centered.
o yeah np the buttons are weird on this site
also just because you have good intentions, that doesn't make your methods right? i get that she cares about his future and does what she thinks is best, but hitting your son and isolating him is not okay?
and from what we can tell with the mom and how she treats her daughter, her daughter isn't allowed to pick her own friends/hobbies and can't make her own decisions ever since she was a kid, and the mom has been super controlling? like your kids are their own people, and forcing them to live a certain way is super unhealthy and not what a parent should do, even if i understand she thinks this is what's best for them.
and i think you misunderstand my anger for the mom- i'm not mad at the mom for her concerns, i'm mad with her methods. like yeah i totally agree, becoming a professional gamer is a total risk and i can see her concerns, but that doesn't justify how she executes her parenting. she screams at her children, has been controlling with the daughter since she was a kid, and tries to force them on a path that drastically affects them for the rest of their lives. like? as a parent you guide and love them, but you don't own people, and she treats them that way. she's forcing them on a path she believes to be right, when it's not her life to live out.
i also can't see her as a good parent if the only reason why she spoils her son is because of what a FORTUNE TELLER said?? like what the fuck lol? she dictated how she treated suho through the words of a fortune teller, rather than with her real relationship with suho. to me this is more than bad parenting, it's just,,, weird. this is a real human being that you're responsible over, and you're not going to put in effort through treating them like a real human being, and instead put all your hopes on words of an outsider to your relationship? like?? what?
also she beats him a lot and like,,, yo,,,, you really shouldn't hit your child multiple times in the face. idk how you don't think she's not physically abusive at the very least? like i get it. asian parents, they hit you. but hitting your child multiple times in the face and screaming at you is abusive, whether or not she had "good intentions".
also yeah i think he's spoiled and i think he's treating the MC in a real shitty way, and i think he has to apologise for it. however, what i was trying to say was that i don't think it's unrealistic that he feels jealous, and combined with his mom locking him away and hitting him, i can see why he lashes out on it, even if it's a real shitty thing to do. in the end, he's still very human, even if it makes him wrong and it becomes his responsibility to fix his wrongs. like dont get me wrong. i can feel multiple things for a character, and with suho, i definitely feel sympathy for his family situation, and at the same time, anger for how he's taking it out on the mc. also yeah i agree he's selfish, but i dont think he's self-centered, since he acknowledges that he was definitely in the wrong and that he is being a dickhead; if you're self centered, you wouldn't even be aware of how you're impacting others.
did you miss the part where she's hitting him (even going so far to lock him away)? what? you think he's hitting himself? did you miss the sister's whole story?? she's treating her children like this based off what a fricking fortune teller told her! this is straight up abuse. don't kid youself
shes literally abusing her son, dumb fuck.
I don't see it being self centered. Is being envious of other people mean that you are spoiled and self centered?
My mother was very similar to Suho's mom and my experience was closer to his sister. It's true I was given stuff without asking but what I really want was not given. Is that being spoiled? I was fine with the controlling behavior but what broke my peace was when she came to my room and check every nook and cranny to find my HIDDEN MANGA COLLECTION and hobbies and threw them away (very similar feels to when Suho's mom destroyed his PC, very relatable for me). To be honest if this control has been since childhood it is a lot easier to adapt than the sudden feeling of being king one day and next you are a slave. Suho's lashing out isn't even that bad. If I am that depressed I usually wouldn't leave my room, answer phone or talk to anyone. My worst lasted a month long.
Do you think I am self centered? I had people envious of the things I had too.
I agree with nothing you just mentioned, like are we reading the same manga
:(((( honestly poor suho and his sister tf that's mom straight up abusive. i hope he and mc's friendship gets revived with the others- tbh suho lashing out at others isn't strange, given his situation and his feelings, especially since it's his dream and future + current life he's losing. the fact he acknowledges it's unfair that he's acting out is really good, i just hope he communicates with juri and MC before they grow even more distance.
also i??? his sister??? like, she has no close friends/personal hobbies or choices she made for herself from what i'm reading like?? damn,, poor kid,,, i hope she's able to find herself :(
also :(( i wonder how spellboy and yummy are doing. haven't seen either in a while. anyways. this webtoon is killing me with how much it's making me think about my future lmaoooo why is it giving me an existential crisis h-