I still love Param and I don't know why everyone hates him. I guess it's because he had se...

I.B January 21, 2021 12:05 pm

I still love Param and I don't know why everyone hates him. I guess it's because he had sex with someone else when he wasn't dating Hwi? This is why I hate going to the comment section, it's so toxic and filled with people who think just because someone has a crush on you, you are obligated to not have sex with anyone else.

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    not a fujoshi January 21, 2021 12:07 pm

    oh my god thank you! like they aren’t even together!

    CatherQ January 21, 2021 12:13 pm

    Maybe it’s because he agreed to go on a date and then straight went out and fucked someone else, and then how he is acting on the date. You can see he felt like he cheated or he did something bad or else he wouldn’t have acted like that. The different is that when Parem started having sex with Hwi he dosent feel like he is doing something wrong and he isn’t hurting anyone.

    jeffynE January 21, 2021 12:21 pm

    Yes, Param can still mingle with whoever. Why people are mad at Param is because he and Hwi's are about to on a date that weekend. Plus, Param knows Hwi likes him.

    jeffynE January 21, 2021 12:22 pm

    Also, Mr Han gives out toxic partner vibes.

    jeffynE January 21, 2021 12:22 pm
    Also, Mr Han gives out toxic partner vibes. jeffynE

    Gives off*

    I.B January 21, 2021 12:22 pm
    Maybe it’s because he agreed to go on a date and then straight went out and fucked someone else, and then how he is acting on the date. You can see he felt like he cheated or he did something bad or else he w... CatherQ

    Yes, he is allowed to do that? I don't know what makes you think just because he's going on a date with someone, he can't have sex the day before. He felt wrong sure because it feels wierd to have done that with Hwi liking him, but it's irrational because he doesn't owe anyone shit. I don't even get your last points, he felt guilty when he had sex with Mr. Han but not with Hwi? So, what? He just felt a oittle guily because it felt like he was doing something behind his back, but he wasn't.

    CatherQ January 21, 2021 12:27 pm
    Yes, he is allowed to do that? I don't know what makes you think just because he's going on a date with someone, he can't have sex the day before. He felt wrong sure because it feels wierd to have done that wit... I.B

    Answered another comment with this and copied in so that’s why the last part dosent make sense.
    But the reason many blame and hate Parem is because he is so oblivious and stupid. He can’t see that mr. Han just want to use him and manipulate him. His freaking ex even came and Parem still didn’t realize it. And then we have Hwi who actually treat him really well.

    I.B January 21, 2021 12:35 pm
    Yes, Param can still mingle with whoever. Why people are mad at Param is because he and Hwi's are about to on a date that weekend. Plus, Param knows Hwi likes him. jeffynE

    So, what? So, what if he's going on a date? So, what if he kniws Hwi likes him? He doesn't owe anybody shit. Like first of all, do you think he owes him anything because he likes him, because I don't even know how to tell you that's a shitty thing to think. And, if he has sex the day before, what's the difference between that and just having sex with other people? He's an adult who isn't in a relationship yet. He can do whatever he wants. I get feeling mad but you have to know that its irrational.

    Also, why do people dislike Mr. Han so much? Hwi in the beginning did some things to him too but I guess it doesn't matter? Not that I don't ship him with Hwi but you can't denounce Mr. Han for that as well. However, I only reread this once so maybe I'm wrong about this. Anyway, why does it matter if Mr. Han is toxic, this ain't about him.

    I.B January 21, 2021 12:43 pm
    Answered another comment with this and copied in so that’s why the last part dosent make sense. But the reason many blame and hate Parem is because he is so oblivious and stupid. He can’t see that mr. Han j... CatherQ

    No, didn't they just confirm Mr. Han's feelings? He likes him. Actually, just remember why people don't like him becauee he kinda led him on a bit so yeah I don't like him as well. Disregard the last part. Also, my man did cut it off with him. I mean, Mr. Han didn't manipulate him. He floirted eith him while not being serioius. He knew that Param felt it would never happen so he led him on a bit. When his ex came that was the moment he cut it off. Put yourself in his shoes, would you have known that Mr. Han was doing that to you? You've been gay your whole life and are filled with the insecurity that no man will love you so obviously you wouldn't really believe that someone so perfect would be doing that to you. Param didn't see his ways because he wasn't looking for it and that wasnt his image. It's realistic actually.