I'll always think this way but, Param hasn't done anything wrong. He didn't cheat, but he ...

沈诗恩 January 21, 2021 2:37 pm

I'll always think this way but, Param hasn't done anything wrong. He didn't cheat, but he got swept by his emotions and didn't think through properly. He's stupid for not thinking about the future, but he can have sex with whoever he wants. He feels guilty because he had sex with someone, he doesn't even like the guy, and is going on a date to experiment with someone that likes him.

He can have sex with anyone regardless of hurting people's feelings, but he should've thought about the long-term, rather than the short. Basically, I'm calling his stupid for not thinking smart, but I'm not blaming him.

Responses
    Lxnaa January 24, 2021 3:08 pm
    Thank you for trying to explain this to them but they just won't listen. I hear you though and completely agree Zoom

    Your welcome hun

    Zoom January 24, 2021 9:49 pm
    Explained poorly, since it was 60% insults. I'll continue to say Param didn't do anything wrong. He's only stupid for not thinking about the future, and that he can have sex with who he wants. Hwi is also just ... 沈诗恩

    You're the person that said you can still have sex with other people even while dating someone and that's wrong on so many levels

    沈诗恩 January 25, 2021 12:49 am
    You're the person that said you can still have sex with other people even while dating someone and that's wrong on so many levels Zoom

    I'm not sure how you view dating but dating is very casual, with no real attachment. When you're dating you can 'see' other people. Where you're just figuring out if someone is right for you.

    Param said he liked Hwi, but he didn't say 'we're dating'. It's at the point where they're not in a romantic relationship, but perhaps they'll have one. I personally wouldn't have done what he did, because I would regret what is to come in the future. He should have thought about the long term, instead of a one night stand with someone he likes but treated him poorly.

    It was an extremely stupid last minute decision to make, but it's not cheating. You could say he lead Hwi on to believe they may have a romantic relationship, but threw it all away for sex. I'm not saying he's completely innocent, but technically they're not in that type of relationship, yet.

    fujo.senpai January 25, 2021 1:21 am
    Explained poorly, since it was 60% insults. I'll continue to say Param didn't do anything wrong. He's only stupid for not thinking about the future, and that he can have sex with who he wants. Hwi is also just ... 沈诗恩

    I totally agreeeeee with ya