Gaslighting from the sister

H1th3r3 January 22, 2021 7:36 pm

Her sister basically said it was the FL fault her husband had an affair and divorced her. Since the FL tried to be "perfect" too much and the new wife doesn't and is happy.
Wtf?

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    Comadrin February 8, 2021 12:11 am

    Wow, the old game of "Let's make someone feel guilty." I had older relatives that played that with me when I was quite small, and it made me worry and feel guilty for years when I hadn't done anything. It's a control game, and a pretty cruel one at that.

    H1th3r3 February 8, 2021 12:32 am
    Wow, the old game of "Let's make someone feel guilty." I had older relatives that played that with me when I was quite small, and it made me worry and feel guilty for years when I hadn't done anything. It's a... Comadrin

    Its fucked up. Especially, in this case where the stress of the marriage caused the FL to miss carry

    Comadrin July 30, 2023 9:09 pm
    Its fucked up. Especially, in this case where the stress of the marriage caused the FL to miss carry H1th3r3

    Yeah, you're right. That part made the remarks deliberately and unforgivably cruel of her sister.