If the "disagreeing" was comments like: seems a bit much, all that wasn't necessary, I don't find that funny or as you said that's in poor taste or simply pressing thumbs down I wouldn't care because to each his own. I've had people disagreeing and disliking comments and not once did I feel the need to continually respond like this unless we were having an actual discussion. I keep responding to highlight the double standards of judging the comment as a fetishization of gay men after reading a yaoi which by your standards could be classfied as fetishizing gay men but not once has that been addressed. The so called negative comments are always about who I am and not what the issue was in the first place "the comment".
The response was "horny little girl" who fetishizes gay men. That had nothing to do with the comment but was a personal attack of course and a comment like that was encouraged by you with the justification that "weird people" (in your opinion) should be bashed because their humor doesn't suit you yet you see nothing wrong with that. I will stand by my commemt because if people aren't even allowed to have fun because your ideas of jokes don't line up then I don't want other commentors to feel scared to express themselves because they are afraid of prejudiced backlash. What kind of dictatorship are you forcing on here?
Let me guess you are one of those reading yaoi for the plot people who need to find a justification to keep reading smut because you can't admit to yourself that you just enjoy reading it. The type who rants for hours about rape if there isn't a warning page and then reads the rapiest of rape yaoi if there is a warning. I know I checked your topics and it's the hypocrasy for me.
You’re problem is that you don’t seem to understand that you can enjoy sex in yaoi or even rape (which I don’t see why anyone would but each to there own) or you can simply enjoy it for the plot. The problem arises however, when people have an incessant need to see these things especially when they’re not gay men themselves, that’s when it’s fetishisation and that’s when you’ll be called out for being a weirdo cause it’s not cute. I hope you grow to understand that but if you refuse to then I can’t have any respect for you tbh. Why should anyone be nice and cordial with you when you’re being weird and excessive? If your idea of a joke isn’t funny then of course people are gonna call you out and if you continue to act defensive when you’re in the wrong then people will continue to attack you. You’re not some type of misunderstood hero for making a dumb, insensitive joke and you haven’t faced any type of prejudice or dictatorship so stop with the melodramatics, it’s honestly insulting. Grow up. PS. Even if there’s a rape tag we have every right to comment on how unnecessary and unprogressive rape in yaoi as a plot device/driver is.
"Full on lesbian not even bisexual". Lovely biphobic comment right there. You are missing the point of ahegao_baybie and getting so defensive your biphobia is showing. There is absolutely no problem in wanting to see secs scenes. Really, there's an entire genre for that and it's tagged appropriately. That's the problem. You can't come not reading labels and then complain about it. You are even missing the point of this genre. In shounen ai the focus will be mostly on the relationship and its development so getting so pressed over no secs is really ridiculous. Every time I read a cute shounen ai there is always tons of people demanding secs as if that would define their relationship when they can go find a similar plot in yaoi. There is no problem in wanting to read smut, there is a problem in demanding it on every story. When you do so, instead of reading it for the story you are reading it for your fetish and you can find tons of stories to suit that instead of complaining for one story that doesn't

Me reading chapter 1: when are they gonna fuck
Me reading chapter 2: when is the dingus going into the anus
Me reading chapter 3: when will the piston versus valve match starting
Me reading chapter 4: let us see the coitus
Me reading chapter 5 : They aint gonna fuck are they
Me reading the last chapter: They never fucked
A summary of ny thoughts while rereading this the second time completely forgetting this is wholesome fluff.