
Why couldn't he just be this sweet from the beginning

Oh I have experienced, it was a roller coaster ride to be honest. One moment he’s the sweetest and after he got my V card he acted like I never matter like gone the sweetness. I caught him cheating 6 times and on the 6th time I decided to walk away but he run after me and promised to change. Things went well for us like for 3 years straight he even proposed but he convinced me to have a baby first before our marriage. I caved in and gave him a baby he always wanted and then poop! Gone the sweetness again, and he went on letting me cry and took back all the security he gave me to be at ease. Then he broke up with me, saying he wants to be free. Two weeks later he contacted me saying he will fix himself and will be back in my and our baby’s life to fix our family.
His family told me that he probably baby trapped me. That he never really wanted to marry me he just wants access to me even without the label through our baby.

Sis I hope u are okay... pls don't go around that man again... he cheated like 6 times and u still came back to him??.. even if the baby is born pls don't go back to him.. even if your life feels like a shyt rn , it will feel more shi if u reunite w him.. start a new journey w your kid.. Ik it will be hard..also.. it may sound harsh.. if your child is a girl.. teach her being in love is okay.. but meeting good ppl first is important..if she loves someone in future, request her to make first let that someone meet u first...u check if he is good or not, also teach her whatever happens even if u fall in love.. never have s3x or child before the marriage.. if your partner can't wait even for years .. then he doesn't deserve u in the first place..and if your son is boy teach him Not to break any other girl's heart for pleasure.. I hope u are okay.. and also dont let that filth man meet your child whatever happens..
Boys are just like those animals..if u found a good one then your life is set but if you found the bad one.. they will ruin your life..
Most of their first wish is to control the woman if they cant, they baby trap them so the woman can't become someone else...so always wait for the marriage how many years it takes and if he can't wait even 10 years for u ...Just leave him, they don't love u enough to wait for u
I hope u are okay tho..
Yeah I'm done with this one byee