
Guys I have a problem, so I'm dating a girl online because she loves me but I dont and and i feel really bad since she's really sensitive and tried to khs so many times, the problem is I want to break up but I'm scared to be the reason she died. Please give me some tips

i would try to explain to her that you’re not looking for a relationship anymore and if you keep dating her you also feel like you’re doing her harm as well. if she’s mentally not in a good place, she shouldn’t feel that a relationship will be the only thing keeping her alive. from what i read she needs some sort professional help, like a therapist, and you cant give that to her. also if you’re breaking up with her i would clearly state that you are not breaking up with her because she is a burden. you just fell out of love which is normal and natural. if she threatens to hurt herself i would try to contact someone close to her so know she has some support system that she can rely on and not resort to violence. even if she hurts herself you are not to blame since she could just seek help but by hurting herself she’s actively choosing to cause you guilt and blame. she may not realize that but if anyone threatens you with suicide that’s fucking toxic and they need help.

This gave me flashbacks about me hearing my parents doing it for 3 hours straight when I was 9. Yes, it's a trauma.

I once slept on the floor in my parents room and I woke up to them going at it, in the morning I woke up again because they started doing it again and after that they got dressed and called my dads mom, whenever they got up they saw me and said, “Oh Shit (my name) is sleeping in the floor.” Thankfully I usually sleep through a lot of stuff such as cops banging on a door because I fell asleep in a hotel room when my dad left and I was left alone, so they didn’t suspect I heard them. The only thing that bothers me is that the forgot about me and that they called my grandma right after going at it like rabbits.
Nah just stay back.