
i love this so much does anyone have something that’s like this where they guy is too scared to confess and is kinda shy

If you are open to BL this trope can be found easier. One of my favorites is ganbare nakamura-kun, alas it "finished" far too quickly :(. Other than that, and outside of BL, I think Takane no Hana nara Ochitekoi, otomen, or kawaii hito or may be similar to what you are looking for. Though I think titles like Tomo-chan wa onnanoko, mitzutama honey boy, or beauty pop may be a good recommendation as well. (⌒▽⌒)
Heres a list I found that may have others in this trope, though I personally haven't read all of them: http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/394738/?filter=&page=1

I would have to do some mental digging for a large list of more titles so I am currently resigning to giving you lists I've seen with some good titles. Hope thats ok lol.
The first two link are BL lists and the last is a GL list. I saw some good ones in both BL lists but you'll probably have to do a bit of skimming. I am not as well versed in GL but tamen de gushi, magan&danai, or handsome girl and sheltered girl are good! Some BL titles I you'd probably enjoy are the best smell, negative-kun to postitive-kun, and ichi ni no san. Other than that heres some lists that probably include my recommendations & more:
http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/767246/
http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/429483/
http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/192986/?filter=&page=1

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/daybreaking_romance/
Hes not as shy and babie ws yeonwoo but he’s still very adorable and is scared to confess to the girl he likes!
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/quoth_the_boy/
This one is so precious!!! he looks scary but is a softie at heart

i main character is so fucking dumb i hate ukes like that he’s a grown man he would me smarter damn.. why should even trust someone like that.. geez

Nah, I pretty much agree. I mean he is trying to get in the pants of a guy who made a living out of destroying women's life.
Stealing all their money, putting them in a situation where it could very well turn into a nightmare for them as well as the mental scar that may make them unable to trust anyone around them, getting consumed by paranoia.
He is trash and the uke is too for trying to forgive him like he simply just broke his sister heart.
What the seme did deserve jail. But since he is the ML he just have to be forgiven by the MC. That's infuriating.
i’m actually happy that he didn’t force himself on him that make me hella happy because most of the time they would do that