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I get what the OP is trying to say, and I do agree with the (what I think is) main point: it’s exhausting for the fujoshi/fudanshi community as a whole to be ‘shamed’ constantly. The Fujoshi/Fudanshi is recognized by outsiders as a group of cringey teenage girls who are obsessed with shipping boys in real life, and people don’t realize how ......

As a gay Fudanshi who dates men, I shudder at the thought of anyone shipping IRL people or celebrities. The Original Poster is the definition of WHY people say ALL FUJOSHI, because shipping IRL people is disgusting and immoral as they're real and have feelings and there are IRL consequences to shipping celebrities, such as making them extremely unc......

SEEK HELP ! I've been reading a lot of answers and it breaks my heart to see so many stories. In case some of you need it, please hear me out : I am also a victim of sexual harrassement, and each person here can see she/he's not alone. Always remember that you have nothing to be ashamed of, no matter what you were wearing that day, who you were wit......

"hOw DARE he THREATEN mE!!!" if they WERE a secret couple then she just outed them, which is potentially life-threatening. if they WERE'NT a secret couple (which imo is more likely) then she spread a rumor about them which could also be potentially life-threatening. either way she's homophobic as fuck, and grossly fetishizes gay men.

I came here from kissmanga, and I know of others, but the community here is really what makes it. It be really tragic if it disappeared. So few of the sites are also as reliable as this one, or have a halfway decent tag/list/category system, and I don't think I've really seen something similar to the Topics and Questions (that's actually used) else......

my mom is kinda ignorant about homosexual relationships (which is understandable since its not acceptable in my country)but she is actually really open minded and always tries to keep an open mind about everything but me liking to read two guy fuck each other hard and dingdong in a male hole?!NO BITCH if she found out about it she would literally b......

Might get a bit of hate but a lot of the older 'classic' Yaoi have the WORST semes... Like Finder. It's a classic that so many people love but Asami is the actual worst. Rapist, possessive, criminal, manipulator, and it all gets completely overlooked by literally everyone. Or Sekaiichi Hastukoi's Takano. He literally spends most of the chapters fo......

As someone who is a part of the LGBTQ+ community, I am offended. The community is about gender and sexuality, not mental health conditions. Although I personally have a fascination with Psychopaths and Sociopaths, the way you went about this is all wrong. I thought this was going to be someone asking for people not to immediately determine every Ps......

I think it depends if the bl is explicit or not. In too many explicit bl everything is around sex and the plot just becomes void once the protagonists bang. It’s also crazy how some don’t give a damn about consent, too often I felt uneasy reading because the character keeps saying no all along and I mean that’s just rape.. So that’s why I t......

I really hate the fact that they make the bottom look so girly because that seems borderline fetish to me. And the trope where “I’m not gay! Don’t think for a moment I’m gay, but I still wuv you.” And they never switch either. They’re two straight dudes who have never had sex with a guy and then the sex positions are suddenly set in sto......

I'm pansexual and I don't really identify with any gender ... but most likely I would be a gay guy ... oh but my body is female unfortunately ... so I would say yaoi is stimulating for me even if it is extremely unrealistic Σ( ￣□￣||) for a person who also has real anal sex it is sometimes really bad to read as everyone just has sex withou......

Dude, I totally feel you. I read BL bc I want a good romance, but a lot of it is just blatant fetishism or homophobic? The majority of it is made for the type of straight girls who love their "uwu soft hot yaoi gaybies" and want a gbf but call lesbians gross and predatory lmao. Don't get me started on Yuri - it's so hard to find ones, especially ns......

I’m asexual and I read yaoi cus I enjoy the sex scenes. I don’t personally feel like having sex with anybody but I don’t mind seeing sex depicted. Besides, usually Shojo romances feature a beyond stupid girl getting the really hot guy. I don’t want to read about a good looking, cool guy dating an idiot. Those type of romances have never ma......

Definitely be careful, you're still financially dependent on them, given that they're so opposed to the LGBTQ community, it could put you at risk. You deserve to be accepted and to have your feelings respected, but, sadly, sometimes parents are too selfish to see beyond their own beliefs to put their child's happiness above it all. I know it's ha......

Lol you're fuckin stuck now good luck. Hope you had a good life ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I wrote this in response to Mi Amore Anon but I thought I'd also put it as a separate post as they've responded to a lot of people discounting their feelings because other sexualities exist. I responded to their comment on their own thread as well. I thought I'd respond to you here because I disagree with you. I agree that there are many kinds of......

If there's rape, I'll drop it (I can read dub-con if it's a good story, even though I would prefer full consent). I also hate stories that their entire plot is based on drama with exes. And if it just gets boring or really dumb. Or if it gets depressing beyond saving, then I'm out, too. I want stories that will make me happy, not depressed.