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it's a communication issue, he's not breaking up with him cause he's mentally suffering, he's doing it cause he thinks he's the cause of it and because he loves him he doesn't wanna see him suffer because of him and clearly not being told of the issues his partner is experiencing he's bound to feel like he's unreliable and inadequate and misunderstand alot of things because again they aren't communicating properly, mental illness does make it harder for them but it's really not the reason

It CAN’t be a communication issue to abandon someone in their darkest hours. That’s final for me sorry.

Not only is it communication issues, the family and co-workers isn’t really helping either. I mean idk if they meant to make it worse but it definitely doesn’t seem like they’re making him feel better.

Yeah I agree that their family was no help at all. But that doesn’t change the fact that you don’t break up for such a stupid reason.

Exactly! Also, if you have to break up with someone with mental health issues to protect your own mental health that's okay! Specially if that someone is being abusive in any way!

There is no world in which leaving a person struggling with mental trauma alone would help them if you’re one of their loved ones.
Actually yes, if they were asking for space is the only answer. The only one. Deciding by yourself they should be alone is just like spitting on a burning person. Making it worse

Person suffering from trauma need medical attention and moral support from ALL their loved ones. It’s another story if the person is abusive or of the couple just doesn’t reciprocate their love to one or the other. Here, it’s not the case.
So no, the uke reacting this way is just plain stupid.

if we're talking fo real life not everyone have the mental capacity to date someone with mental illness ;/ also like the the first reply said, its literally bc of communication issues, both of them didn't communicate what was going on which led to this, the seme misunderstood the uke, and the uke didn't had to hear it from someone else

Yeah if you love them truly you would find I’d worth going through it together. Never said that it was a piece of cake. But a real couple who love each other who isn’t just there for a good time would stick together. You don’t know what can life throws at you, so choosing the easy way out when things get hard is just plain cowardice and lack of commitment.