
Why are some people hating on the husband and pointing fingers? The husband didn't just think going to war was gonna be fun, he was ordered to by the king and I'm pretty sure the king sent him there not expecting him to come back. And when he finally made it back alive, thankfully, his relatives were pressuring his pregnant wife and telling her that he's dead and not gonna come back. and to boot it, his father died. His only family he could rely on. He's only, what, 19? 20? And everyone is saying he should have paid more attention to his wife, yes I think so too, but how can he when he has a whole dukedom to maintain? He literally can't. He couldn't! I can barely think about other people when I'm stressed with homework, how am I supposed to expect for him to stay away from his office when he has to take care of thousands of people who are living in his lands and relying on him? And did he know that his wife was depressed? Does he even know what depression is? NO. He did not.
He probably thought she hated him and their son because she wasn't getting enough attention or because she was restrained by them and couldn't go to parties and shit, because that's all he could actually come up with to make sense of her actions, because they didn't know shit about mental health back then! Those little shits still thought all women needed to do was get married and reproduce, how are they supposed to think women had complex feelings? Of course she's having the hardest time and I can't even imagine what she's going through, like I have completely no idea and he doesn't either, but she's not the only one suffering. Working his ass of is probably a way to protect himself and his family. And he also needs to think about his son because he still exists and his wife isn't taking care of him, which was the norm back then.
Yea that's what I gotta say... reply with your opinions cause I like reading what other people think, because my opinions aren't facts. I want to see what your point of view is and what angle your seeing this is

I mostly agree with you, but you said she’s not the only one suffering, and while that’s true, wording it like that is a bit...
It’s kind of almost invalidating her feelings. What she went through/felt was what only she went through. No one else felt what she felt, so to her, her suffering was all there was. That also means that she can’t really comprehend what her husband’s going through either, so each to their own pain I guess.
Anyways, I don’t think you meant it like that, just wanted to chime in ( ̄∇ ̄")
So... are we gonna not talk about the "she's my woman" because it was an omake???