
Okay but I’m tired of reading bl’s and they do it outside or in public places because that is so un realistic

Not necessarily as unrealistic as you may think. I actually know several people who have done it out in the open in public places and luckily for them, no one showed up and found them. One couple did it right outside a public restroom at a little league baseball field when no one was around, but someone could have found them easily. And another got down and dirty in the back of a movie theater (though not all the way that time).
I was sad that I was lonely today after getting stuck up on a date but then I home and read this so I’m a little happy ╥﹏╥