Ok so what I’m interpreting is that Chaon is so fucked up by guilt of almost accidentally causing Sehan’s death that he’s super susceptible to manipulation from Sehan(who is already rly good at manipulating people?)
Chaon already experienced panic attacks/anxiety attacks related to his guilt & of almost losing Sehan, and Sehan takes advantage of that. Sehan doesn’t want Chaon to become independent so he has sabotaged Chaon’s every job, forcing Chaon to be financially reliant on Sehan (which worsens Chaon’s.guilt and anxiety, possibly contributing to his doormat attitude.)
Chaon is obviously not a doormat for everyone, he seems to have little to none emotional permanence around Sehan (hating Sehan bc he was raped, but immediately forgiving him after a bit of time/pressure.)
Chaon has lived with & around people who don’t respect his consent & boundaries, (his fling, Sehan etc,) so probably doesn’t respect himself a lot.
Most likely, Chaon’s dissociating to some degree because he feels guilty for Sehan and doesn’t think he should/deserves to hate Sehan, he puts up w a LOT because he’s used to his boundaries being ignored, he lacks self-respect, feels a lot of guilt, vulnerable and is anxious.
I’m prepared to defend suyeon for another 17 seasons
obviously not if people are still calling him a slut, whore, who deserves to die (amongst other disgusting things and gory things)… people have been calling him shit that has been worse than what I’ve seen for literal rapists and traffickers in manhwa…
The worst I’ve seen for rapists and traffickers were “cut his dick off,” but I’ve seen people say shit like: “skin him alive,” “I hope he gets ran over slowly,” “he’s a whore who deserves to be ___” etc about suyeon…
To be clear, I hope you aren’t justifying Suyeon’s cheating. But I agree 100% about defending him from full on haters, especially after seeing that sad traumatic back story. I made a lengthy post with my thoughts on this. I don’t hate Suyeon, but I cannot like him either as a partner. As a human being, I’ll welcome him.
not justifying hi cheating but i'm saying that some people are just going WAY too fucking far with what they're saying about suyeon, like telling him to die or calling him a slut. I think they should all break up, get therapy separately. The other guy (suyeon's ex) is way worse than suyeon so I literally do not understand the heated hate for suyeon
Um yeah telling someone to die is too far. Calling him a slut? I would’ve thought he was one too if I didn’t see the backstory, but I wouldn’t shame him for being one either. The only thing I detest is cheating part, but once I saw back story, I do sympathize even if I don’t like what he did. I think he saw his father in the other professor, they look too similar for that to not be true.
They did break up. ML officially ended it, and Suyeon cried, begging him to not leave. And from beginning chapter, we see the ML in therapy. I wonder what led to that, I mean I know what led to that lol, but how and when in the future.
The other professor is horrible. The heated hate about cheating is valid, but not having a bit of empathy or sympathy after seeing the backstory and even before that, is awful.
And I won’t lie, I was so shocked when the cheating part came. He did it so casually too but then stopped and that’s when the other prof continued despite losing consent. It didn’t seem like MC had remorse of cheating, actually maybe he did (based off what I saw, he thought of ML and that’s when he said to stop.)
I guess the trauma of being SA’ed by father made him want more of it, a self destructive behavior. Truly sad.
WDYM CHARIN DIES
Update: I honestly don’t want him to but it seems like he has to. Based on what I’ve skimmed through so far. It’s as if his story with Jin has to come to a conclusion and living it’s not an option. Otherwise it’ll always be the same thing over and over again. It’s like they’re not meant to be together. Again I haven’t careful my read it but that this is what I got from skimming through a bit. I feel bad for Charin though but it seems that in order for him to finally find some peace as well he has to….you know…











Is there gonna be a side couple with the uncle??? He’s so cute
IFKR THE UNCLE GIVES BOTTOM ENERGY IDC WHAT YALL SAYYU