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I need this real bf

real bad I mean

We all do my frien.. we all do! lol

Yeah

Having gone through something traumatic in no away excuses one becoming a toxic person. Being hated(as in strongly disliked) for hurting other people is only a reasonable outcome, being bullied/hurt/harrassed in retaliation is not.
It's up to each individual what capacity for understanding they have toward someone who's hurt them, especially when they don't know that person's situation.
On a personal note, even knowing about her trauma, I still have no sympathy for someone who uses her mistrust as fuel to harm others instead of trying to at least contain it to herself.

I do agree with u but expressing ones feeling is a learned behavior while one person learns to be forgiving from their family, environment, etc. the other learns to do the opposite. i just don´t think it´s as simple as that for someone to act in kind when they never had a chance to learn it. sometimes we make everything sound so simple when it´s not. again i´m not excusing her behavior, it´s just we don´t know her back story and her perspective.

remember the chapter when she got upset at mirage for saying she is not dating the white hair dude but then from outsider´s perspective it seemed they were very close and sooah though mirage is making fun of her? we are seeing everything from mirage´s perspective and we know what she is thinking so we know she was being genuine, but what if we could not read mirage´s thoughts?

u don´t have to agree with me, i just feel that our perspective would have been different if we could only see things from sooah´s perspective. oh god i type so much lol my poor fingers

Of course our opinion of someone could possibly change when we look at a person from different perspectives and with more information..
What difference will it make knowing that Sooah had a past where she was bullied at school and at home, had hardly anyone to rely on and to trust while growing up? We will understand the causes and symptoms of her trauma, which will explain her behaviour, to a degree.
However, manipulating and mistreating others is her choice. She is jumping to conclusions that are triggered by her lack of self-esteem and loneliness and proceeds to act rashly and harmfully based on those. She's lived long enough and has the experience to know how her behaviour affects others. At this point, she's no better than those who bullied her.
Where I'm going with this is: people who go through hardship should be supported and treated appropriately. However, unfair as the lack of the above in a timely manner may be, they still need to be held responsible for their harmful actions (see bullies/school shooters/murderers who were once victims themselves).
Sooah of course has the potential to overcome her trauma and treat her disorder, but the will to change has to come from her, even if she has to go through it alone since she's an adult. Does that mean people shouldn't hate her for being a toxic person and hurting them? No, she's done enough to warranty hate from them. That said, it's up to her to change and to other people (except for victims of her behaviour) to be open enough to see the change in her.

Glad that I wasn't the only one to feel that! ┗( T﹏T )┛

haha

Why? ╮(￣▽￣)╭

uh wtf why not

true n it also felt too flat know what im sayin

Uhum too bad it had a lot of potential

are you on drugs

i think it would be considered animal abuse

?????? ofc they go to prison thats disgusting

That is a legit question. i was curious because some poeple do abuse animas like that

But would they be send to a prison?

in most of the countries yes https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legality_of_bestiality_by_country_or_territory

Hum intresting. tnx

You should try and see if it's really like that

Interesting question to ask here. XD
But yes it would be animal abuse, and people can go to prison for it. What brought it up? I know people are talking about some girl that has sex with her dogs, is that what got you curious?

kind of. my initial thought came from child rape which is super common in yaoi and we know it´s wrong because children are too young, defenseless and can´t consent. then i though isn´t it same for animals? so there should be some punishmnt for that too. i know it´s weird to compare children and animals, but they both are being forced or minipulated into this. also like to hear other people´s opinion on these topics

also this story is abt a boy and his cat so... lol

Ahh, I see. Oh and sorry I was being too random, I was talking about this weird lady (Whitney Wisconsin) in real life that has sex with her dogs and she talks about it on Facebook. She was banned from Youtube before I think, but now she's on Facebook, which was quite recently, so that's why I thought you were thinking about that. No one is sure if she's just trolling or not though, police have gone to her house but nothing happened.

well that´s lonliness+ sexual frustration for you lol. i just googled this and apparently she was arrested and had to pay some fine but let go after. that´s disappointing

Awe that really is disappointing, she's done so many things to the poor dogs that come under her "care" for example she feed a sausage to a puppy (that should only be taking liquids, think it was only some weeks old) and the puppy ended up choking and died.