"So we have a toxic, selfish ML. Instead of a character growth and chasing arc, let's give the MC Stockholm and make them love the ML despite not ever being treated decently more than once."
Love at first fright
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_at_first_fright/
She was at least trying to be a good master with Jiwoo but with her ex she's a typical HORRIBLE abusive rapist top, and him saying no isn't erased just because his body is enjoying it. I'm not one to complain a lot when bdsm comics aren't accurate, but the troupe of the woman becoming an abusive rapist towards the shitty ex needs to leave comics forever. (Even if it is women in men's fields lol)