Kur's Topics (1314)

yeah she's an absolute pest- always buzzing around everywhere smh.
Like shoo u fly(╯°Д °)╯╧╧

I thought it was more of him being a sadist than being toxic

he's not being treated like shit omg. yall are so vanilla it hurts me

he is tho there's a diff between dirty talk with your partner and this

yeonwoo consented to it. yeah it just accidentally happened that they are comptatible in this way. but also having one night stand or smth that involves dirty talk isnt inherently off limits either? ofc irl u wanna say what u want directly and openly but this is a work of fiction so i think its ok if its not Perfect depiction of healthy good sex acts. the point isnt that its completely unproblematic but that it isnt toxic or abusive. esp when we see for ourselves that yeonwoo likes it (and already fantasized about it even if we didnt see those dreams play out in real time)

i agree that it's not abuse since he's consenting but still toxic and yeonwoo enjoying it doesn't make it less toxic this poor baby clearly have shitty taste in men lmao

based on what do u say he has shitty taste in men tho? he blocked the last guy who was fucking him when he acted unsafe and out of what yeonwoo finds acceptable. yeonwoo's crush on taehwan is partially cause he thinks taehwan is hot (and wants taehwan to fuck him) but also casue taehwan WAS very kind and reached out to him back in highschool. yeonwoo's frustrations are that he feels guilty, lost a good friend and also still gets super hot for taehwan who now rejects (or rather did lol) yeonwoo cause of yeonwoo's betrayal of his trust. so like...the feelings here are complicated. people acting like taehwan feels nothing for yeonwoo when the whole point is he felt SO much for him and thats why he's STILL upset. why his way of "punishing" yeonwoo is just a blowjob (the exact opposite of a punishment for a guy you KNOW is attracted to u!) not like punching him or yelling at him or even just cussin him out. his insults to yeonwoo are also mainly of a sexual nature. basically less a judgement on his character as a person and more on the fact that he's a horny little hoho which he kinda is (but thats ok!). and like again this isnt me saying people cant hate taehwan or not find his actions attractive cause not every1 is into sexual sadism or degradation kinks. but that DOESNT mean yeonwoo is a victim, i just rly feel like this read is unfair to yeonwoo and also ignores their past and the way it complicates things for both of them in the present.

i'm saying he as bad taste in guys bc his friend litteraly say it too like yes of course we saw him block the other guy but he only got attracted to bad/toxic/weird guys so far and the problem for me isn't him calling yeonwoo a little slut is more like saying that seeing his face is a turnoff and that when he see him he turn angry/violent but like for now i agreee it's not super bad I'm more like scared for the future

i was like when does her turn violent?? but u mean ur worried he will. i mean ok but just to be fair here, we havent seen taehwan engage in any violence? the closest is almost coming to fisticuffs with dojin who hit him first (altho tae DID deserve it haha). so like...there isnt a precedant set so far that he will be violent to yeonwoo esp when he wasnt back when he was first kissed. in fact his first reaction was to tremble and then run away. and yeah saying dont look up at me wasnt nice! i dont think he's being an ideal sex parnter but the point this was a totally impulsive act for both of them. the issue isnt "is taehwan flawed" cause ofc he is. or "is taehwan being too hard on yeonwoo over one mistake" which isnt a bad take either but again rather "is yeonwoo being victimized by this man" and imo no he's not. Or "is yeonwoo easily manipulated by taehwan cto do whatever taehwan wants cause he has a crush on him?" and again i say no. thats what im trying to stress. everyone is gonna feel some kinda way about taehwan but i dont see why yeonwoo needs to be infantalized in order to justify people's hangups or assumptions about taehwan. (and again most of these assumptions wrt taehwan are based on what peopel THINK might happen and not what HAS happened.) so ya.