
☆☆ This might be completely irrelevant but I really hope Kim Dan stops calling Jaekyung "Sir" all the damn time... and stops apologizing for everything! But most importantly - starts acting like a 30-year-old!!! ☆☆

He is, which I think people forget there is a social hierarchy in Korea. He calls him "Sir" or 님/씨 because he is HIS BOSS. Honorifics is for everyone no matter how much older or younger they are if they are above you in the hierarchy. So I'm not sure how people expect him to "act 30" and stop apologizing when that's literally Korean culture.

True, even here people call others sir (yes the English one) or use -ji honorific to give them respect regardless of age. It doesn't even matter what the hierarchy is, if you're working together, studying together or acquaintances and not really familiar with each other, people would use these honorifics. And I've seen them apologizing for mistakes they didn't even make if they're lower in the hierarchy. Sad, but that's what the norm is.

Yeah I also meant he shouldn't say Sir in private! I understand that they have to say it at work etc. but it's still so disturbing, especially when he says it in the sex-scenes!
Maybe cuz I'm from Sweden and here you don't have to say that, even if it's your boss. We can call the boss for "you" or by their name! <3

No I get it, it's so strange but I'm used to it since it is my culture (and it's so weird). But the problem is, even when they are in private he is still working sadly. The two of them are not friends to drop honoroifics, even during sex, since Dan is still working during intercourse. He's getting paid for the sex, and everything they do in private so

I understand your point, but as you said the most important difference is culture here. Also, Jaekyung has Dan at his house and he's serving him 24/7 so Jaekyung is also his boss 24/7. It's not just about work. In most Asian culture you give respect whatever part of the day it is and no matter wherever you are, be at work or private.
Even if you are having sex with your boss you've got to add the honorific. Dan is 30 and that's precisely why he has to adhere to these social norms ingrained in us since childhood. So yeah, being in private doesn't matter. I guess it seems weird in western settings though it's pretty normal here.

Yeah, it's really strange for us here in Europe because we don't use honoroifics in the same way... We have Mr and Mrs but only use it when writing, not speaking! (except in UK and maybe some other countries ofc!)
But it's very interesting how other cultures have it! In other words, I would have been fired right away in Korea if I just said my boss's name like we do here in Sweden haha!! And yeah, I always forget that Kim Dan works for Jaekyung! :( Sorry if I upset anyone, It's just annoying when it's translate to "Sir" every time! <3
Aw, they are so ready for baby number two!!
And maybe off topic but I'm always surprised when the top says they haven't come yet...my husband is ready to come as soon as he put it in haha! (≧∀≦) ( *ahem* guys in general have a hard time not coming fast! )
the sad reality of men when they're already done and im like have we started?
So true!!! They are supposed to rock your world for at least an hour but usually end with 5 minutes! But the stamina on all the yaoi-men though?!?!
my first boyfriend (and now my friend) used to last HOURS and we did it almost every day. So I thought everyone was like that, it was so sad to discover that he's not the norm
It's already a miracle in itself when they last as long as 5 mins. (/TДT)/
It makes two of us, sis my hubby is the same! Now that he is a bit older, I feel that he is lasting more lol but when we were younger, omg, it was fast LOL
HOURS? I am not even sure what is healthy anymore lol
fr^^^ one of the greatest lies told by a man is that he's going to give me an unforgettable night and then is finished with 6 strokes not even 2 minutes
what did happiness feel like? pls describe paradise to those less fortunate
the first time we fucked in a proper bed (we were horny teenagers lol, so doing it in a big bed was something memorable) I timed it, he lasted 3 hours
we had 16y old stamina and hormones
Haha. this is why I always do foreplay first with my wife cuz Ik as soon as i put it in, it's blasted off mode.
HOURS?! Girl you lucky!! Yeah, foreplay is really important! There you can at least enjoy yourself for (mostly) an extra long time as a woman! ;)
But I agree that the older you get, the more stamina the men get...
*some private info* My husband unfortunately got testicular cancer so he has to take shots with testosterone for the rest of his life But the first few weeks he take the shot, the sex is awesome! :)