
Cute. But trying to just stay in the fantasy. I don’t think many would actually wait. I don’t think I could, his whole 3 years damn.

When you truly love someone, it isn't that hard. My husband is a military veteran. I spent many months - accumulated to years - waiting for his return, only to see him for a few weeks and have him leave again. If you are not truly committed to the person leaving, then waiting is exceptionally hard. However, when you truly love them, you *want* to wait patiently and enjoy every moment you have together. Love isn't selfish. So, you think only of their happiness while they are gone and how you can make them happy when they return. When they feel the same for you, the effect is two people living and breathing solely for the purpose of making each other happy. But, if either's love is selfish and self-serving, only the failures to make the selfish one happy are seen. If one can say, "You're not doing enough to make me happy.", that person's love is selfish. The only goal of true love is making your lover happy, your own happiness stems from theirs. Sadly, in today's world, that is a very hard thing to find because everyone thinks that the goal of being in love is to be made happy by your lover rather than making your lover happy. When two people who love selflessly are together as a couple, that is a love that will last the ages. I have been married for 23 years, with no end in sight, and this is how my husband and I love each other. Our love can survive and overcome anything, even being apart for years.

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* everyone forget him trying to rape his own damn kid crazy ass fuck

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You've misunderstood... he would've never done it. Even his own son said he wouldn't have done it. Christophe was so convinced in his crazy mind that he was just like his sick father, that he tried to convince everyone around him by following the same script (with the intention of killing himself at the same age his father committed suicide). Ultimately when he attempted to molest Alex, he couldn't do it and became violently ill instead because his true self was not a pedophile.

I didn’t say anything about him not being mentally ill, in real life if someone tried to rape their own child and said they were mentally ill/ were mentally ill would you be like, oh I forgive him he’s mentally ill. Most likely not. P.s not attacking anyone just explaining what I was trying to communicate in the original comment.

well i don't know about this.. because if he had done the deed.. (WHICH I -kinda- BELIEVE HE WOULD HAVE) would u still be able to say no jail time? cause while reading.. i kinda got the sense the dad/grandpa was sick too.. (maybe not - but we may never know) (but the Genes are strong with this one..) when Chris talked about his dad... he said he was loving too.. the memories were like heaven.. or something.. so that made me think the dad has some disposition too... like a twisted side like Chris..
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