I like the sweet yoshiharu buuuuut....
I wanna see more
yakuza yoshiharu
Bad boi yoshiharu
Bitch yeaaaaaaah
He would stop being so dense and realize its not because of the heat. That hes saying i love you.
If anything he should know that is when they are most honest.
I never make a post this long but I feel like I should say something. I may be a crazy person who thinks I don't know "these people are real and i want to help" that being said:
There comes a time when you have to realize that you are alienating/draining all of the people who are trying to help you.
take responsibility for some of the things that you are going through or the position that you're in.
Example: You have "friends" that you knew we're not your friends you knew they didn't like you, you knew they were using you yet you continue to hang on to them. That was your choice.
At this point you don't have friends you have bullies you were more concerned with what they thought of you other then what you need you were just lonely.
Its almost as if you became addicted to this feeling these problems started long before the tragedy happened you were already in that pattern of behavior
I do not mean to offend anybody who is affiliated with this irl.
no I'm not talkin out the side of my neck because I don't understand because I do I had some horrible tragedies happen to me.
I had a support group but I snapped on everybody all the time so I had to figure it out for myself how to pull myself out. People were leaving my side i didnt want that.
When i was ready they were there for me but it had to start with me.
you cannot alienate everyone.
I think his friend cutting his calls short and snapping on him is a wake up call or it should be. You are killing this dude.
you cannot have that person and tie them up in your life the entire time no matter how emotionally attached you are to them they will burn out after a while he is trying to have a life for himself.
He was considerate enough to pair you with someone who better understands you. he didnt leave you high and dry.
At this point now you're just being selfish you're going to give your friend PTSD.
you do have somebody there!
not everybody is going to jump full fledge into a family argument that they know nothing about just to defend you!
you need to apologize and make it right because this person might end up leaving you too, where will you be?
ready to kill yourself?
everybody has every intention for you to live except you!
don't you see there's a problem with that it in and of itself?
It doesn't do any good for everyone to fight for you to live if you yourself want to die
I don't know maybe it's your M.O? tie yourself to people to you so that they can suffer as well...
That's all good and dandy except depression literally affects the way your brain works so changing is easier said than done. And I don't think his FWB dude is going about things in the most helpful way tbh.
I feel the same so I don't want to take his side but well maybe he acts this way because he sees things differently. His behavior is paradoxical but I think he doesn't realize it. With his uncle, he felt wronged and powerless so he was angry. That's why he saw Wooyeon's actions as pity rather than help. He was hurt so he snapped. When you take his point of view, his behavior becomes pretty logical. He was more trying to defend himself rather than makes Wooyeon suffer.
Someone said before that mental illness affects people around the one who's suffering. That's why I think that his way of seeing things negatively affects his relationships with others. It's not intentional, he doesn't want to make people suffer.
I don't really know about this kind of mental disorder but I think its about lacking some hormone and depressive people are unable to like something which is usually seen as likable. So in our case, the mc can't appreciate the help. His perception is skewed. It's not obvious for him that he should be grateful to people who care for him.
idk if that makes any sense English is not my native language
My thoughts exactly! But it's a short response(￣∇￣")
Totally understand where you’re coming from but unfortunately the negative feedback pattern from his depression is stronger than his will. Over the years even before his parents passed away, he already started to have depressive tendencies. He kept placing himself in a victim position and learned to be helpless. He put very little amount of effort into changing his environment and being an active agent in his life. It’s very common especially in teenagers who are struggling with finding one’s identity and fitting in with the crowd. However, the way he allowed his environment conduct how he leads his life, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more he thinks he’s pitiful and unlikeable, he locks himself in that mindset and actually becomes isolated from people. His relatives really didn’t help either. Once he accepted the idea that he was the cause of his parents death which his relative ingrained in him, he’s trapped by this guilt. His guilt becomes his comfort zone because he spends so much this in this mindset until it becomes his identity. So, when Chanbit, someone who selflessly see him as something other than how he sees himself, he becomes firmly attached to him. He also becomes obsessed with them because he’s genuinely afraid that they will leave him. Ironically though, this is how people become overwhelmed or smothered and withdraw from obsessive people. This is all related back to how he’s not an active agent in his life to make himself better (once again, understandable given how severe his depression is). We see him get better throughout this series, but it’s all because of the people who are in his life. Without them, he would have been in the exact same position. He constantly self-victimize but does not like to be pitied. It’s not that he’s ungrateful, I just think he does not want to be pitied when he pities himself the most.
Exactly... You're not yourself when you're dealing with depression. It affects ALL of your mental processes
You are correct. I know personally. Though he does have someone who understands
I agree. Fyi your English is fine
True. I also believe we have not been shown the exact cause of the behavior when we encountered him he's already in middle school or high school so we don't know what happened earlier in his life I do believe it's something we haven't seen yet I appreciate your perspective thank you for responding
That uncle did something to him verbally physically and emotionally he did something cuz you don't just look like that Over some furniture. cuz if all it was was that he broke some furniture he would look annoyed but he looks downright terrified petrified
Maybe the uncle was the one who said that his parents' death was his fault.
Maybe
I believe that the alpha will be devastated to know that he got him pregnant, (if he does)
but at the same time I think he'll be happy.but he will be unsure of the omegas feelings, possibly think he forced this on him.
he's wanted to date him from the beginning, I believe he will probably try to push him away like he did before his heat started. Although as an alpha he does have his pride and will want to take responsibility. The alpha is always taking the omegas feelings into account.
I do believe he was being truthful when he said he "loved him that he really really loved him" and I think that the Omega was just taking it as something that you say when you're not in your right mind.
I do think it will cause problems for them in the future.
on another note he might be able to pull out before then but I seriously doubt it since he has no rationality
The feels and the trauma are real ...man i felt that shit when he said "please dont be hurt anymore" ╥﹏╥
The guy who did that with her was actually the real guy and not the Clone
How do you know that??????
I don't....i just think it will be a funny thing. A clone has to have an Original right? We dont know where that original is....or. Maybe the clone is of the scientists teenage self lol
I think so too
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