
I don’t understand why the plot are always like this. Why do they always have to hide the fact that they had their a child with the person. Everyone deserve to know that they have a child. And a child deserve to know that they have a father.

Well, sometimes the father is a horrible person. If the child is born after the parent was raped, the rapist probably doesn’t have the right to even know that their child exists. Some people might try to take the child away if they know about them and then neglect them after. Not everyone deserves to know they have a child out there, and sometimes it’s better for the child not to know what kind of person their father is.
Honestly I feel like it’s always the parents job to reach out to their children first. It really isn’t the child responsibility to reach out to the parent. The mother saying he should have tried to find her. What kind of excuse was that. If I was a mother I would want to see my child period regardless of what anyone told me, I’d see for myself what my child wants. If they truly want me in their life or not.