
She's such a coward. I know that she was coerced but it doesn't matter.
The truth sometimes hurts more but in the long run it's better and hurts less to be honest.
If she says the truth now he would understand and cry for her etc., if she says it later or if he finds out accidentally, his heart will break because she kept it from him. She will hurt him way more.

She knows her coming out with this would only bring on more problems because neither she or her bf have power in this world. If she risks it and her bf does something dumb, the duke would probably kill him, and then where does that leave her? And you don’t know how her bf would react. In her head, she probably thinks he’s gonna consider it “cheating” and get angry with her. I’m sure she would’ve told him if the duke was a random guy but there is something actually on the line. She probably thinks it’d be best to tell him after they return to their world.

Nah, that's easy to say, hard to do. Trust me. It's easier to tell a stranger your own story, than someone who's close to you. While I never had any partner, and I will never have a partner, it's even hard to tell friends about what's happening. And this scenario? It's very hard. Though, I do believe to have a healthy relationship each of you should be open and forwarding, honest and communicate with each other. If one cheats, cut em off.

Totally opposite for me, I share pretty much everything with my partner. Talking with strangers is fine but they will never understand you as well as someone that truly loves you.
But I have no clue how long she's been dating the dude and how connected and deep their relationship is. That could make the vibe different and it could potentially change the situation.
I still dont understand why she's so hellbend on going back. Like did you ask the dude if he wants to go back? Most people in Korea would probs want to stay in that new world, lol.

Sure. But in this particular scenario where she's literally being raped by some psycho? No, it's never easy to say that. And yes, that's exactly why talking and sharing this to a total stranger who doesn't know you is fine because they won't judge. They'll feel sorry and that's it. Unlike someone who's close to you who could be judging you after feeling sorry for you, some even went as far as blaming you for being a victim in that situation. Every other thing aside from this would be okay, that's easy enough. But being raped? No, never easy to tell someone. Also, being coerced does matter. She's literally being manipulated, threatened, and harasses by some deranged psycho who could very well just die at the early point or the story.
And the reason why she wanted to go back, if I still remember it correctly was because someone she cares for is in the hospital. And it's not simple to let go of the world you were once born in. Especially if in the new world you are just a maid who can't even have your own will to prevent your own boss from doing something to you. Had she been a rich noble or even a commoner who can make her own choice she would've atleast considered staying, even if only a little.

I never said it would be easy but if you know your parter well you'd know how they would react + it is the morally right thing to do.
You don't know if the life for the commoners in that world is so bad, you don't know if she can't leave the mansion but it doesn't really matter cos she won't bc she wants to go back. If she cares for a hospital and helping people she can become a healer in this new world (which is what I think will happen.)
I also don't ever see a mention of her ever asking her bf if and why he wants to go back. There is an insane lack of communication between these two and bc of a spoiler I've read, I understand why.
No matter what you will argue, I won't agree with you. It's almost always better to tell the truth and just rip off the bandage than letting it go on and fester and becoming an actual cheater and breaking your lover's trust. Being a victim is not an excuse to bad behavior. Your suffering doesn't excuse or cancel out someone else's.

It's alright if you don't agree, I'm solely speaking for the victim, not for anyone else's. Being a victim is not an excuse to bad behavior? When someone is sufferring they will be having a hard time thinking which is 'morally' right to do. That's exactly why some people will either --- their lives or go to a therapist instead of talking it out with their loved ones.

Plus~ regarding your question about why she always want to go back and my response - I did not say she cares for a hospital, I said someone she cares is in the hospital. Big difference. And I said had she been a comonner or a noble, she MIGHT consider the possibility of staying, albeit a little. Anyway, we both know she's gonna stay anyway no matter her opinion. And yes, you're right. Their are two perspective for this - In the boyfriend's side, of course he might feel betrayed and felt that she's cheating, and would ask why she's not telling him anything. And in the gf's side, ofc she can't tell anything she's being raped and forced to endure such humiliation. Such a traumatic experience could affect someone differently.
Your suffering doesn't excuse or cancel out someone else's indeed, but think of the girl's experience and trauma. She'll say it eventually, when she's ready. She's scared, and that's okay. Sometimes looking out for yourself rather than other people's feelings is acceptable once in a while. Specially in a very traumatic experience such as this.

Guys, don't listen to that other person saying that the spanish flag is facist. It is a lie. The facist flag had an eagle.
It's a disgusting talking point that is misrepresenting spanish history often used by hateful communist extremists.
It's okay to dislike a flag but don't lie about what it represents.
I miss his blonde hair and his asshole aura he had with it. I hope he gets his natural hair color back