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This is a genuine question (and it’s long asf), by hetero undertones i mean seeing gay relationships portrayed through a straight lens. now i was reading Baa-chelor no more! when i saw a comment saying “I'm gonna repeat what the wolf said, " I hate people with low self esteem and people who apologize too much" Just disgusting.. Why aren't there much bl mangas where the uke is confident and sassy.. Why are they all so pathetic like this one” in which i responded with, usually twinks get all the clicks and views, they also are usually much more meek and weaker than the seme because usually that the only catalyst to push forward the relationship or it literally the semes redeeming quality because most of the time it follows the ukes pov. i then pointed out that they’re almost always smaller than the seme too, almost feminine. now another person commented that feminine men do exist and that weak men shouldn’t have any connection to women at all. However i think it does, if we look at these stories from a gender portrayal perspective, can we not see tradition gender roles of straight relations just masked over two gay men? don’t get me wrong i know that it’s not all bls but can we not see the correlation? to point out that feminine men exist to counteract my argument doesn’t really make much sense to me when they aren’t the majority of gay men in real life, so why are we seeing it so often in bl? keep in mind i don’t want to shame anyone for reading these, because shit i read them too, but the people trying to defend the constant twinkification of ukes and then just saying that feminine men exist is kind of idk mind boggling to me? also an insane amount of bl are written by women in japan’s and korea, which are actually very conservative countries so whether it conscious or unconscious i think they do try to fit these gay men into the gender binary by making one more smaller and weaker. i would say that i’ve been seeing my buff ukes rise and im so proud because back in the early 2000s we’d see such criminal height differences like wtf. but they’re usually the same height. idk, i think i might die on this hill but im just wondering if anyone else agrees

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bruh i wish we could comment photos

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i think minghwa needs to come up with better plot points, i mean bj alex did so well and i think she’s just running with the same story but in color and in a different plot. personally ok PERSONALLY (my opinion) i think that even though it’s jaekyungs character growth arc rn, i think it should be kim dans as well, like i want kim dan to stand up for himself and like lowkey crash out at jaekyung bc he really did lowkey high key give him hella mental problems, yall ever seen love island? season 6 reunion when kaylor finally stood up for herself? yeah, i want it to be like that. thanks for reading this ted talk.

i knew how fucked up this was but seeing the side story really just set this in stone, this is some really fucked up shit

the real placebo is how the fuck the author somehow manages to haul my ass back to this shit everytime it updates

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It depends? If it's like a celebrity or a fictional character, who cares, everyone fantasizes w those Now, to voluntarity fantisize having sex, or even just kissing with someone you know while being in a relationship? That's something you HAVE to talk to with your partner, it doesn't necessarily has to be a problem if you're both, like, let's say p......

i lowly love shurena with swanhaden tho like IDK ANYMORE I CANT CHOOSE

bruhhhhhhhh way to fucking ruin a character by adding unnecessary SA ☹☹☹☹

lol

rereading this because it’s peak and the charging arc is so delectable *chefs kiss*

Idts the point of his backstory is to justify his actions in the present but to give a reason and make us understand why he grew up that way. You can sympathize AND still punish the criminal. Ffs like he was a CHILDDD his mom left and he had to live with that piece of shit asshole too. I wish you people wouldn't take this so personally and actually read it like the fictional story this is because the parallels bw jaekyoung and Kim dans childhood are so similar but they turned out so different. both of them are pitiful AND YES JAEKYUNG IS A PIECE OF SHIT SURE but every comment is see is like 'sure he had a sad backstory but that's not reason to treat anyone like that and be a rapist's NEWSFLASH GUYS, ALL CRIMINALS EVEN IRL HAVE A SHITTY PAST OK???? you're all RIGHT ABOUT THAT but like focus on story and actually think about the story. No one's justifying his behaviour bcz of his past(some people do because of lack of critical thinking skills AND TO THEM- PLEASE GROW THE FUCK UPP) idk if what I'm saying is making sense but please just read the story and analyse it using it brain AND feelings not just ur feelings. Thnx

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i don’t really get why everyone’s hating on the omega dude, i mean they aren’t in a relationship and he doesn’t know how far their relationship runs back. from his pov he all up for grabs, he doesn’t need to show any loyalty to ml bc they aren’t dating, he doesn’t even know they’re fucking. he hasn’t done anything dickish either and mc is really kind to him, no shot he’d fall him. ( shit i’d fall for him too) i think we need to chill out for a bit because it’s obvious mc and ml are gonna be endgame + do we really want it to end this quickly?

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sighhhh…. this is gonna be his redemption arc where he has a tragic backstory and that’s the reason why he’s a piece of shit and then jks gonna be like wait i lowkey am in love with him OR kim dan is gonna be like omg he’s so damaged and i’m still in love with him and all is forgiven and another sighhhhhhhhhhh bc i’m still gonna eat it up

wtf

everytime i read this i think to myself why tf am i reading this dumpster fire of a manhwa i mean the story isn’t even good i don’t really care for the art either. and yet i still come back every upload like someone casted a spell on me

this is the shit i really needed to know

oh jesus! that took a turn for the worst

if three ml does then we can just believe that the side stories aren’t real right? it just ended with the main story. right?

MUNCHING LICKING THE CRUMBS AND DEVOURING THE PLATE CAUSE YALL FED US WITH THIS UPDATE

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T^T

i low key can’t take this seriously anymore lol everytime there’s a serious moment in which i end up shedding a few tears the author always finds a way to crack a joke like wtf… and it gets me everytime

1. how did you feel about this chapter?
2. did the chasing arc begin?
3. if not, who is currently pissing you off the most; seme or uke?
4. is it time to let this marinate instead of waiting every ten days for it to upload?
5. best part about the chapter?
6. worst part of the chapter?