
Go friend. I hope you drum some sense into this FL. Now I'm understanding why her old relationship ended up in divorce. She assumes everything from her perspective and would rather keep everything to herself than try and talk it out with her partner. So when she started to assert herself, her partner just dismissed it because she was never like that before. (Of course it was wrong of him to dismiss the FL just because she never said anything before)
If she continues down this path, she'll never be in a lasting relationship. She needs to learn how to communicate with her partner. I hope her friend convinces her to talk it out with the ML.
I also need a Hannah to take care of my love life. Haha