
The seme is actually not that bad... But the amount of trauma he has affects him but at least he knows that

Yup it’s the same with the seme in painter of the night. They both have extreme trauma from parents beating them and are affected by that mentally. This seme did it but didn’t mean it and quit after the uke told him to stop. It’s like if you’re beat all your life that’s how you perceive love and “normal” from a family.

You can forgive him because of this reason so plz hear me out. He has had WAY more trauma than this seme. He was physically beat and his father then multiple men forcibly rape him causing extreme PTSD/panic attacks/and insomnia as we have seen. ADDING TO THAT FACT this time period is HUNDREDS of years ago if not further so Mental health and its effects on your literal PERSONALITY AND MIND were not none and didn’t even know this was a bad thing to “correct” this man for being gay. So because of all this he doesn’t know what he’s doing is wrong since hes been forced to do it to and is doing it unconsciously, he only realizes what’s happening when he finally has feelings for someone which his father taught him was wrong which causes him to, in a way, mentally/emotionally heal for him. Now I’m not saying his should be justified in those actions but you cannot complete blame him because those things in his past severaly fucked him up and he’s trying to get better. It’s better to forgive and not forget then to forget and not forgive. I really hope you understand my argument if you’ve ever experienced any trauma(honestly hopefully you haven’t cuz that sucks but even so)

The uke has right to be mad tho... Ho-in avoided him after finding out the Uke was gay.... YES ,he wasn't avoiding him because he was gay and it was still for an unrelated reason, but the Uke doesn't know that and Ho-in isn't telling him differently
Also the Uke is clearly not with the redhead, they just fuck....there's no type of cheating going on...some of talk deadass slutshaming the uke
The top isn't mad at uke.... He doesn't think it's his fault ..... He's mad cause the Uke was assaulted by his friend...He's mad cause he introduced him to that kind of person