
He's right tho, especially in SM play, safe words are very important

Yes, I agree. I also agree with his decision to not go too far because of the lack of safe words, and the open wounds on Jae-young's body. BDSM can be very dangerous and you can injure yourself badly or even die if you aren't careful. I am not trying to scare anyone off, I personally LOVE BDSM, but it is dangerous. This is why having trust in your partner is so very important. The S needs to trust that the M is going to use the words if they feel unsafe, and the M has to trust that the S will listen to the M if they use the words. In things such as abandonment play, the S has to trust that the M is in a suitable mindset to be left alone for long periods of time, and the M has to trust that the S will come back. Trust is very important, and without safe words, the potential trust is limited greatly.
I am uncomfy