
Even mothers who grew up with their mothers are not perfect mothers and some would even suffer mentally/emotionally/physically. It's not easy being a mother and sometimes, people who doesn't even have a child yet could be a better mother. Let's just be happy that after all the pregnancy and giving birth he had gone through, his husband is there to help him and giving him the freedom to enjoy himself and be happy cuz for real-life moms those things are luxury. Moms are already drained enough during pregnancy and is even more drained after giving birth that is why dads should at least be ready to have a helping hand and give the moms some time to relax and enjoy. You should also keep in mind that no matter how much you try to avoid and prevent any kinds of sufferings to happen around the kid, there will always be a possibility for it to happen so even though it hurts to even imagine it you need to accept it and should be ready to learn what to do when it happens cuz kids are prone to sickness and accidents no matter how confident you are as a parent.
What the heeeellllllll why eeeeennnndddddd i don't want it to eeeeeeeend ┗( T﹏T )┛