i feel like putting himself in the monastery was his attempt at realizing how weird he was being and trying to be better ??
oorrr maybe it was just so he could be away from the family and scheme in peace BUT i wanna think he has some conscious
she seemed kinda into it tho so maybe theyre perfect for each other either way ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
are we meant to feel bad for him or somethin?? all im getting from this is that he actually used to be a decent human being who could love her properly with his whole being, (even tho he was somewhat immature, young and naive); BUT THEN TURNED INTO A TOTAL DICKHEAD??? FOR SOME FUCKIN REASON??? COMPLETE 180???
hhheeellll nnaahh
People change when faced with hardship. Honestly their situation is a perfect example of why you shouldnt marry early and without money. People say hardship makes people grow closer together but thats not true, its overcoming those hardship together. If you dont overcome the hardship and you end up getting stuck in it, youll just end up resenting each other.
I don't think this part of the story is meant to make people feel bad about Mincheol, but mostly to make people understand why Na Haesoo has a hard time moving on from him and why she has a hard time trusting her new relationship. This is how most people are in a toxic relationship, they can never move on cause they're still holding on to that person their lover used to be. I think it's a good thing to add to the story cause now I understand why Haesoo didn't leave him despite him being an ass. She owed so much to him and at some point, he was the only one who truly cared and loved her.
not only that, but haesoo also experienced verbal abuse from him that further exacerbated her view of her own self worth, and under years of living with the current him while also holding onto hope that he'll change and be who he was when she met him... yeah, no wonder she stuck with him even through everything he put her through and struggles with her relationship with taeha
yea throughout the whole story theres def been extreme scenes,,, but now the scenes are becoming more and more pointless
like its done just cause they can
i think before it felt like it was still actually part of the plot, despite how explicit it could be they actually kinda served a purpose to the storyline
but nooowww??? theyre just thrown in there for no real reason it seems










I NEED THIS SHIT TO STAY ON TRACK PUHLLEAASSEE
i even let it marinate thinking there'd be some progress BUT NOO, LIKE 2 WHOLE CHAPTERS WERE TAKEN UP BY THE (very wonderful) SIDE COUPLE