i feel for gyeom because if you were in his shoes you would think the way he does too.
imagine :
- having your father hate your guts since young but use you for your blood.
- having your step mother hate your guts as well
- having your real mother dead
- having a sister that get's whatever she wants and watch her get the affection from your father that you wished for
- having get kicked out of your home because no one wants you there.
- having your father come to you again but only for your blood. you finally stand up for yourself and you see where that got you? completely disowned and cut off.
- having working to support yourself and stress out.
- never feeling needed or wanted
- feeling used
and that's not even all of it you still have having your heart completely broken by someone who only used you to replace someone else.
he was lead to fucking suicide. his life has been shitty, okay.
so to the lot of you that is mad about gyeom's way of thinking. you have to realize what he was faced with in his life to even think that way.
he's going to feel insecure and have negative thoughts. nothing has really gone well in his life and no one has really loved him(until chun)
my mom once told me that 'someone who has been treated badly for most of there life will not know how to act when someone comes along and decides to treat them the right way'.
he has improved a bit from his previous self(going out, joining social activities, etc) but isn't done growing. so chill the fuck out.
* also sorry for my english
Agreed. Yeah, it's frustrating how Gyeom thinks and acts, but I think it's pretty normal for someone who has always faced severe verbal abuse and repeated abandonment. I was never abused like Gyeom was, but my mom has always made me feel worthless (she's an undiagnosed case of borderline pd), so I spiral into negative thought processes like that too. Your mom was right. It's hard to stop thinking irrationally when, for most of your life, your irrational thoughts always came true.
THANK YOU. i could give u a 100 thumbs up if i could. the lot who comments that are annoyed to mingyum is pissing me off damn. like um did yall forgot what he went through? idk if im just an understanding person but?? i wont expect him to be okay with all thats happened to his life
''Who d'you think you're kidding
He's the earth and heaven to you
Try to keep it hidden
Honey we can see right through you (Oh no)
boy, you can't conceal it
We know how you're feeling
Who you thinking of?
No chance, no way, I won't say it, no, no
You swoon, you sigh, why deny it, oh, oh''
just admit it already!!!(づ￣ ³￣)づ
Dude... This is a seriously weird coincidence, the Hercules movie is actually on tv right now and I’m listening to this very song as I’m reading through the comments.
It's too cliché, I won't say I'm in love
I thought my heart has learned it's lesson
It feels so good when you start out
My heart is screaming "Get a grip, man!"
"Unless you're dying to cry your heart out!"
Boy, you can't deny it
Who you are and how you're feeling
Baby, we're not buying
Hon we saw you hit the ceiling
Face it like a grown-up
When you gonna own up that you got, got, got it bad?
Sorry I had to least say this much.
omg you guys are amazing
From (almost) zero to hero!!! Yes, indeed!
honestly, i hate guys like hyunwoo. i knew too many like him in high school.
you don't want him? turn him down properly. otherwise, you'll just fuck him up.
leading subin on and shit. （￣へ￣）bitch.
BRUHH SAME! Kang Jun and Subin need to get together right now! THEY'RE SO FUCKING CUTE TOGETHER ITS A SIN NOT TO HAVE THEM AS THE MAIN COUPLE! SCREW HYUNWOO HE HAD HIS CHANCE! DON'T GO REGRETTING IT NOW!
RIGHT so fcking cute.
like don't go messing up subin's feelings, when you don't even want him, bc the girl you liked(or still like) doesn't want your ass.
chapter 3: 'i have a girl who i like'. he never lead subin on smh
all the chapters : " i have a girl who i like but i'll come back to you whenever that girl doesn't pay me any attention. i expect you to be waiting because i know you like me. but i won't PROPERLY turn you down, or change my actions towards you, because that's sort of an inconvenience to me when i need you to do stuff for me. also, also one more thing that boyfriend of yours, im not worried, you'll come back to me in the end because you like me."
hyunwoo for all the chapters: i've talked about how i like yeona for several years but you were too self centred to actually listen to me. i also repeatedly told you about how im uncomfortable with you sexually harrassing me but i still like you as a friend and i think that friends can do stuff for each other, like going to you on a rainy day because you don't have an umbrella. i have properly turned you down and asked you to stop multiple times. i don't need to change my actions because i'm not the one to blame for your own feelings. you told me that we could go back to being friends and i believed you. i also thought that you got over me because you got a new boyfriend.
Hyunwoo dear if you don't like me sexually harassing you the don't cling on to me whenever you need something you know that I like you and how hard is it for me .yes firends can do stuff for eachother but our relationship as you already know is not that easy you know that I like you but still get my hopes up but when throw me away when you have yeaona..yes you don't need to change your action that's make you selfish because you know that is like you and you still use me.like your maid.which you don't have a right to.yes I am the one to blame my own feelings but you are the one to blame for coming to me whenever you need something .I told you yes to being back as firends do I have the choice you still know I love you as you say I eventually came back to you.but you are still are selfish to not let me go properly because you then who will do your chores right?.and you didn't thought you were shocked when you heard that I have a bf "bf my ass" with their eyes open are not the reaction of a person who happily admit that i got a bf. So if you are that proud and think you are not wrong just don't call me anymore because I am trying to forget you
nah, leave him alone. he good. he's on a steady recovery to get over you. and to his "i'm confused" all i gotta say is good for you, but stay away from him with all that fuckshit.