Trash includes:
- playboys/womanizers (?)
- those that only care about themselves and their pleasure / entertainment first
- those that treat others like objects
- harassers/bullies
- (mild): rude to others
I’m not here for arguments just conversations and questions! If you have a question feel free to ask I will try my best to help. I am a victim of SA so I have strong opinions on “dark romance” here is an amazing article if there is confusion
https://talynnkel.com/blog/2016/1/20/rape-disguised-as-romance-why-i-stop-reading-most-romance-novels
When I’m wrong I can admit that I’m wrong but I do need solid information for that so as to not just believe anything
♡dead inside ♡
♡HATES rape tropes abuse tropes!!♡
♡crazy for high quality goods♡
♡very picky♡
♡but laughs easily♡
♡always hunting for the highest goods♡
♡hate people who love rape or SA bl♡
♡I love everyone who is kind my little pookie bears♡
Addicted to the good stuff
P.s I am mentally goofy so if it sound like I’m mean I’m not trying to be I sometimes have a hard time discerning whether I’m being fair, kind or that good stuff
Remember that if you are saying it’s okay because it’s fiction you are forgetting that the wrongful presentation of sexual violence contributes to rape culture. It isn't about differentiating fiction and reality, everybody knows it isn’t real, its about cause and effect. Sexualizing, downplaying, romanticizing rape along with trivializing sexual violence in any manner contributes to rape culture because MEDIA including fictional media, is the biggest contributor to rape culture. If not, one of the biggest. There is no safe space for ANYBODY who wants to misrepresent sexual violence or SA victims. There should never be one, and authors who do that should be held accountable. Think about it we shouldn't want misrepresentation and sexualization of rape, it is HARMFUL content. Thank you for reading. I don’t want to argue, I just think it’s important to understand what’s okay and what isn’t even if it involves sadism here is a link to what BDSM actually means and what these people stand for:
https://www.harpersbazaar.in/amp/culture/story/essential-rules-to-explore-bdsm-responsibly-572918-2023-06-08
https://www.everydayhealth.com/healthy-sex/bdsm/
I think it’s important to note that people may not know what rape is and might not understand it or might not understand that what they are saying is hurtful and wrong, here is an amazing article that goes over these things:
https://talynnkel.com/blog/2016/1/20/rape-disguised-as-romance-why-i-stop-reading-most-romance-novels
I genuinely want to know why people victim blame and also excuse rape and abuse because it’s fictional and not in real life like I want to know what the thought processes behind that is?
Here are my thoughts
Rape isn’t excusable wether it be in writing (in books movies) or in real life I can see where people may want to separate stuff like how they say separate the art from the artist but if someone is romanticizing rape in literature and or in movies it has been shown to have real negative affects on society and how they talk about rape and sexual assault this also goes with abuse and abuse victims. As someone who was abused and sexually assaulted it hurts so bad in my heart when people victim blame or try to make the excuse that it’s not in the real world.
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I just happen to come across good non toxic realistic love yaois so it's better to emerge them.
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male leads that regret treating their significant others like shit, ignoring them, rejecting them, etc.
dont your heart just clenches hard and your lungs cease to exist whenever you read a character that regrets letting go their significant other? that realization of wanting to be with them but they're already far away? that horror in their faces when they realize that them moving on means they'll be with someone else instead? their anxiety rising while thinking, "what if i am too late?"
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So like at the last chapter was it the prosecutor that was hooking up with the foreign blonde omega?? Cause at this point I can’t tell who’s who anymore.
"WANNA MAKE YOU MINE EVEN IF IT MEANS TO BE LOATHE BY YOU BY REVEALING MY DARKEST DEPTH"
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•"This list is about yandere seme and possessive lover with their yandere and obsessive lines as well written as "SEME SAID"/"UKE SAID"
As well keep checking it cuz i add some new mangas when i come across good ones.
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"WANNA MAKE YOU MINE EVEN IF IT MEANS TO BE LOATHE BY YOU BY REVEALING MY DARKEST DEPTH"
Part 2- https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/2432971/
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•"This list is about yandere seme and possessive lover with their yandere and obsessive lines as well written as "SEME SAID"/"UKE SAID"
As well keep checking it cuz i add some new mangas when i come across good ones.
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