Jockey's Topics (120)

this comment made me laugh more than this manhwa

It's not like you can control your feeling. Falling for someone just, happens. Still, I definitely agree that he had it coming. Did Clark warn him about their relationship? Because if not, that matters too.

then don't read it because its there story last time I checked

Ugh right?? I'm team cain I hate these "drunk sex" scenes in bls. It's so offputting like wth.. anyways team cain even tho we know yahwi is endgame most likely

I mean they have a valid point

BL is BOYS LOVE. Not for people to fetishize and read for SEX don’t tell someone to not read a story that has uncomfortable scenes that involve lack of consent if they’re reading for plot. They simply asked for the author to stop putting r@pe scenes because it can trigger or make some people uncomfortable

Drunk sex happens in every genre tho. Lol,,, author wanna write smthg crazy they can and will. Author wanna use an over used cliche used in literally all types of consumable media, they can. If a certain subject matter makes you uncomfortable, just dont read it. Its really that easy.

Not eerything is gonna be geared to a persona taste because 'oooh it triggers me!'. Wake up. No one will baby stuff down just because someone find something triggering.
Thats like getting mad at action movies where people get shot because 'im triggered by guns' its as simple as not watching said movie. Same goes for this and any tropes. If it comes up and you dont vibe with it, move the freak on and stop acting like the world now has to cater to your watered down safety net. Dont like? Dont read. Easy peezy lemon fuccin squeezy.

Agree we can choose to read or just pass it. There are many more bl manhwa that not include rape etc. Visit shounen Ai section, you'll get many bl without rape scene. I really dont understand people complaining the stories cause its not to their taste but still read it ..

so? people can have opinions

Having an opinion and purposefully wanting to be offended are two vastly different things

Why are you defending this so hard they're right. And who the hell are you to tell someone not to read or watch something because it triggers them? Comparing guns and getting shot to basically rape is like comparing apples to oranges those are two totally different things. People shouldn't have to just except things because not everyone has a problem with it.

Rape should not be considered the author trying to "write something crazy" tf

This!! Rape is so normalized in BL and it’s kind of romanticized and seen as “oh this begins their journey,” when it’s really not normal

Exactly. And it amazes me how much people defend it and get mad at you if you don't like it. Embarrassing.

If you dont like something, if it casues triggering, then just dont put yourself in that situation, its really that easy lol. Dont like some type of content? No problem. Drop it and move along, its so easy. Easier than wiping your ass after a fat shet. Literally no one is forcing you to sit there and be angry at the world because of a situation you put yourself into. Stop being 5.

If you see something wrong with an aithor just doin as they do with their own characters in theor own world and story, you got a problem bro.
The joy of writing comes from the fact that it is essentially up to you how your world works, even the most garbage isekai all have a certain charm to them because you can tell the creator had fun doing what they do best, creating. Be it something 'triggering' or not, they can write what they will. They can do what they want to their characters because they are not writing for you orr anyone specifically. Unlike what you think, the world doesn't revolve around your obtuse axis, get a clue.
People like you are the type to get angry that their neighbors are playing music you find 'triggering' at an event being held in their yard. You're the type to bang on the door, tell them to turn it off because it triggers you, then probably call authorities to complain that ypu are being mentally hurt because of your non considerate neighbors.
That u bro.

Dont like, dont read. Easy peezy.

I’m not trying to say that the author should completely stop I’m asking that rape stop being so normalized in BL when it isn’t such an easy topic, is free there are trigger warnings and the reader can choose whether or not they want to read it but still

Should you continue to read a story that triggers you? Absolutely not.

BUT this user makes a very good point. R*pe is too normalized/romanticized in BL when it shouldn't be. Even BL writers on Wattpad or ArchiveOfOurOwn normalize/romanticize r*pe. It's an insult to the LGBTQA+ in many ways. There is nothing romantic about r*pe... at all. Authors shouldn't spread this misconception because it is very harmful #－.－). We all want to enjoy BL, it's just hard to enjoy it when plots normalizing/romanticizing r*pe is so common.

Also, 5-year-olds don't read yaoi.

A lot of the straight stuff I read has the exact same elements (sometimes even worse) thsn yaoi. Is it harmful there too? Or is it only harmful when its in yaoi?

There are a lot of stories where it doesnt happen, you really just have to search a little.

Another point id like to make id that if current yaoi tropes upset you or anybody else, why not read a sho-ai or make your own? Complaining about someone elses work (that we are reading FOR FREE) is really petty in this sense, because it makes no sense to now act as if the author and others who just like to read fiction (because its fake and no one goes after the loli manga this hard wtf) are in sometype of evil gang that is immoral and thinks rape stuff is okay in the real world, casue its not okay in the real world, duh??? At this point, whenever I see someone hetting mad at a certain theme in ONLY a YAOI and ignoring the fact that that is a theme seen across genres, I get a bit pissed because...well, I just wrote why.

In the first sentence of my previous comment, I acknowledged that readers should not read manga that triggers them. Please, actually read what I wrote. All that you are arguing has nothing to do with my argument that r*pe is a harmful conception and should not be romanticized/normalized.

Plus, while YOU read for free, I pay for a lot of my manga (only the ones I like.)

Oh yea I pay for stuff too, but look at me still on a pirate site being a pirate yohoho, get of that high horse before you break your toe.
You can keep on going with yourself and keep dancing around the super simple solution that is: DONT LIKE, DONT READ. Yall always wanna go on complaining about some fictional story as of you haven't read something else thats 'triggering'bto some other bloke. Now you wanna try and look like some angel because you pay for some stories? But you still on here? How about go read the stuff you pay for??
Some ppl are just like 'poop, here we go again with the rape trope lol' and will just gloss over it because at the end of the day its fiction, bit you guys just like to be seen and heard and act like everyone must think like you. The world dont work like that lol, some people are into that shit.
Kiss kiss love

Lemmie use your own words.
R*pe is too normalized/romanticized in straight comics when it shouldn't be. Even straight comics writers on Wattpad or ArchiveOfOurOwn normalize/romanticize r*pe. It's an insult to the straights in many ways. There is nothing romantic about r*pe... at all. Authors shouldn't spread this misconception because it is very harmful #－.－). We all want to enjoy straight comic, it's just hard to enjoy it when plots normalizing/romanticizing r*pe is so common.

You can also replace this with yuri. Or shouta. Or loli. Or anything.

My point: Authors should not romanticize r*pe. There is nothing romantic about r*pe. To lead anyone into believing otherwise is very harmful.
Your point: dON't LiKE, dOnT rEAd.

DUH!!!! I am not arguing against that????? All of your "points" are empty because you lack reading comprehension skills. Instead of being childish and petty, read! I agreed with your point from the beginning but also made a very valid point. Yikes ( °Д °).

Also, you were the one to bring purchasing manga into this? You said I read for free so I corrected you. So if anything, you lifted me onto the "high horse."

Here I'll ask you this so I can decide if I want to continue having this conversation. Do you like rape in yaoi or do you even care about it?

I dont really care abt it. If its there, its there. If I cant stomach it (which has happened lol) I close it off and move on.

This is probably the last time I'm gonna respond but I don't care if rape is in yaoi I only care when its in it and as many others have said romanticized. Rape is NOT a romantic thing and shouldnt be seen as one. When people say stuff like this theyre not saying the world revolves around them and authors should listen to them theyre just saying rape isnt romantic and shouldnt start a relationship in yaoi, movies, books, whatever. That has nothing to do with me being "triggered" or "putting myself in the situation". :)

Yea nah. Its gonna be in ither stories, new and old. Youre gonna go to those stories and do the same thing. Youll still be triggered by anything that offends you. Its probably in your code or something lol

Babes....youre literally a hypocrite. In some of these comments you were arguing with yourself, just saying shit that could deflected back at you, but HEY im sorry I dont want rape to be romanticized, my bad :(

Ooh yeaaaaa, still commenting after saying you were done. Babe, at the end of the day, I dont get offended by something that shouldn't be offense. Its fiction. You can make a fictional characters life as much as a living hell as the author wants, and no one cares. Im sorry you and others are so hooked onto whats not real that you cant even tell that a drawing is just that. A drawing. You want to be offended and live in a bubble of safe speace? Go ahead, shoo shoo now my child, this the witching hour, grab your soap and wash thy self in the riverbed made with the tears of the triggered, for it shall flow on for eternity, in a world never ending, amen.

Just stop. :/

This is like arguing with a hypoceitical two year old so im done.

Ooga booga heres a cup for the tears. Warm it up, diffuse with some tea leaves and understand that shitting with ppl is hilarious. Im a horrible person, plastic and all lol

Lol I can read my child, calm thy tiddies least they fall. Ill keep on lifting you, so you can fall and break your toe. Its fiction, if someone wants to romanticize something creepy, let em. Its not hurting the real world because people who know how to use that big pink mush upstairs know real from fake.
Go break a toe. Imma be there, liftin you uuuuppp so you can break yo toeeee
:P (psst if you cant alrady tell i literally give 0 shits about this post at this point, casue ppl like you will always be mad when someone even mentions something ya think is problematic, soo, like,,,, hoes mad i guess idc)

Yikes, how immature and childish. You're not even funny... it's just cringe that you can't have proper conversations. I wish you would've told me from the beginning that you lack intelligence

Child, we pirate yaoi manga on mangago. We all dumb here. Ur not smart for saying you're of high intelligence. Thats wgat the 40 year old antivaxxers say on facebook.
Muah, love you babe

So many grammar and spelling mistakes, I had to read it a couple of times to understand it. Where did I say I'm of high intelligence? HA, I only said you lack intelligence... those reading comprehension skills again.

до свидания, клоун.

Awww! You used a different languagex just for me! Tysm! I love you! Keep thinking your of higher intelligence or somth, thats the last ditch effort for people who are beyond insecure in themselves lol.
Keep ur head up fellow pirate, casue at the end of the day anyi abuo ndi nzuzu.
(I added some cool language spice because your so smart, heres some knowledgeeee)
Also not sorry for hurting ur feelings. Kiss my fat, plastic, barbie ass.

Gonna go on and bow my head rite quick to everyone who disagrees with me, at the end of the day, disagreement makes stuff interesting. I guy gotta stretch his legs once in a while. Its nice seeing people going back and forth defending what they believe n so forth, its fun.
So, apologies to anyone I did go back n forth with, just know it was not personal, as I dont know any of yall, n yall dont know me. LOL. I was doin crackhead ass stuff towards the end anyway.
So, it has ended.
But Thatlostsoul is an asshole.
Muah

*Thelostsoul BHAHAHAHAAAHAAAA

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