
Is there a "true polyamorous" yaoi manga out there where all involved loved each other (or even just sex- a real threeway and not a threesome gangbang)? If there's one, I'd very much like to read it.

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hard_core_heart/. Maybe this is what you are wanting...

How about sankaku opera? (▰˘◡˘▰)
What happened to Nii-chan during and after Ojisan makes me question established norms. Yeah, it's horrible that he was targeted and taken advantage of of by a paedo. But his subsequent suffering because of the love he developed for Ojisan (being shamed for it, pitied, bullied by society, and even being abused by his parents) makes me question how "normal" people handle situations like this. Fucked up as it may seem but I've honestly thoughy for just one second that maybe, just maybe, that Nii-chan‘s life was better off with Ojisan than the life he experienced afterwards. I know that Ojisan should've kept his hands to himself but in his case, the resulting stigma was waaaay worse than the crime itself. This story is just sad.
Those so called 'normal' people were more psychopathic than the pedo uncle.
actually I think those normal people reaction was normal , like if you were mother and your child say he enjoyed being molested , normally you would think this child is poor or sad case , I cna't think of any other way a parent can veiw this .. if your daughter was rapped and she say she enjoyed being rapped or love her rapist , as parent how will you react ?
Are the methods Nii-chan's mother chose correct though? What it did was twist her son even more. As a parent if my daughter says she enjoyed being raped, I wouldn't whoop her ass. That's just mean.
In Nii-chan's case, his innocence was already taken away. I genuinely believed he loved Ojisan. If he didn't, he wouldn't have his mind twisted by Ojisan's desertion. Nii-chan grew up in a place where you're expected to follow through the flow and be normal or else, get bullied and shamed by society. He was forced into a limbo state by then, penting up his anger and then finally taking it out on Yui. Nii-chan was the consequence of many things. Including and especially his abusive mother.
it still doesn't mean the people reaction to him was abnormal , I think it would be more abnormal to go along with what the child say and justify child emotional from being raped/abused .. also nii-chan is not result of mother abuse he normal result of child molestation .. lets say they just separated him from oyaji-san and his mother did not do what she did do you think the result would have changed ? .. the reason he became this twisted cuz they separated him from his loved one and as yui said he was thrown away by his beloved oyaji san cuz he had a daughter , so I think as child he wouldn't have understood the breaking up feeling and would have still been attached to his oyaji san and might he turned out to be what he be even if his mother didn't abuse him which I think is wrong wording it should be over protective over him .
I don't think Nii-chan "enjoyed being raped", he just thought that he was in love, and that Ojisan was in love too. He clearly says that he doesn't understand why it was wrong, or why you can't have sex as a child, and they didn't try to explain, they just told him he was wrong and abused him because of that. If he had been my child, i guess I would have thought he's stupid but not a pervert or anything.
It is not a normal reaction to me, since they never really put themself in his shoes, they just considered him a lost case, and I don't think he was.
Well hello? His mother did not just whooped his ass, she loterally whipped his genitals! Clue: the cane went to the area between his legs. Looked at him, he couldn't stand the pain, he got drools all over.
She was a sicko child abuser. Not better than the pedo uncle. She should not be allowed to breed in the first place.
Excessive physichal punishment is never a good way to teach a child. When I was little when I unknowingly did something wrong, there were different methods used by my parents.
My mom got angry but she told me why it was wrong. She made me understood. On the other hand, my dad said nothing but hit me with whatever his hand could reach, be it a cane, boots, iron pipe, etc. It hurted me and yet I did not know what or why I was wrong. Not until my mom came and explained it to me.
And that's why I took a distance from my dad but I got closer to my mom. I could not understand what he thought or wanted. The physical scaring memories are the ones that linger.
Communication was always a better key. Empathy was helping. Pain and fear did nothing but made a resentful memory.
my mam used to pitch my eye as punishment or hit my hand with ruler , I don't think it was excessive punishment , I heard other parents use sticks and belts to hit there children , so i am thankful that my mam did it lightly . . I think it helped me through I was very naughty child and had alot of energy goig around and getting into trouble .
pinch my ears not my eyes !
WTF? I think the mother whipping him in his genitals isn't overprotective but just plain abusive. If your mothee whipped you in the genitals would you say that she's just overprotective of you? Again, WTF.
You're naive to think that in this one, Nii-chan was only the consequence of child molestation. Yes, it started with that but society was the one who actually made him worse. If only society and his parents made him feel that the "normal" world was better than the world he had with Ojisan. Which they didn't so Nii-chan grew to resent the "normal" world. How hard was it not to understand? It was all Harada's point in this chapter, anyway.
"Normal" in this case is indeed normal in a collective conservative society such as Japan but "Normal" in his case isn't exactly better.
Also, one more thing:
Yui's Mother = Overprotective
Nii-chan's Mother = Plain abusive
See the difference?
I see it but don't agree to it , I can understand Nii-chan mother feeling and why she did what she did , she might have done it wrong way but her intention wasn't bad .
Well too bad then, she fucked up her son and it's too late. If only she wasn't so self-centered as to disregard everything just for her selfish desire of not have a son who would be "a shame to his mother". :p
I still think this what most mothers would do , specially those who from Conservative families , and it's all done out of love toward the child not cuz of sham to his mother , yeah I think she was worried about what society would think of her child if he was to turn molester in future or pervert , too bad she used old fashion way to do it , but I think all she did was for the best for her child . so she did it out of love even if she did it in wrong way .
The mother is coming to visit, though. So we'll see if your point of view is correct. But as of now, I stand by mine that she's abusive and that abused actually was one of the biggest fodders on why Nii-chan targeted Yui. Whipping his child's genitals out of love? We'll see...
ok , I also want to see what his mother would do , I hope this time she accept him even if he was criminal , you know I saw a video on youtube were mother went to where her son prison and worked as cafeteria lady in the prison just so she could be beside her child and make sure he not turn wrong way in prison and do well this time , I admire this and thought that if I was mother I don't think I can accept criminal child and that I might even end up killing my own child with my own hand to prevent s/he from becoming criminal , but I guess when you really mother you would think differently and hold your child very dear to you even if they turn the wrong way .