Why would you bring up children AFTER you’ve gotten marriage, and the fact that he was NERVOUS? What????? Y’all are MARRIED! What in the hell.
I’m too adult for some of these storylines. Wild!
Even if you are married, I believe asking your partner if they are ready to have children and planning for it together is more appropriate than it just popping out of nowhere cause u forgot contraceptives or you alone did it without your partner's knowledge.
Maybe I think about it like this since I don't want to have children but I wanna have a partner.
So yea.
Well, but a baby is a whole new responsibility and I think isn't something to take lightly
You misconstrued my comment.
Babies are something you always discuss even before getting together. ALWAYS. As someone who doesn’t desire children, I would NEVER date someone without FIRST telling them I don’t want kids.
That's logical but seeing as how the couple are, they're a bit stupid y'know
But not everything can be talked about, given how they abruptly got together, they are one of those.
I believe, just between them both, they can't love anyone but each other, if just one of them wanted children, one would need to compromise since they don't want anyone else as partners. Fortunately, they both wanted it lol. They are so chaotic honestly.
I kinda thought it was something more in the line of "is *now* the time to have a kid?" rather than "will we ever have a kid?"
What’s wrong with being nervous about it he probably was thinking it’s not the right time to bring it and the normal thing for couples to have children after marriage if they plan not to its the person choice but they need to discuss it before with their partner
That’s an unusual dynamic to have in a relationship. In my humblest of humble opinions, you should never feel nervous about bringing up any subject with your partner. Cautious? Sure. Thoughtful in your approach? Absolutely. But nervous to the point of fear? That’s a red flag. Open and honest communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship, and if you feel like certain topics are off-limits or could lead to tension, that’s something worth examining.
Seeing that scene from that perspective does shift my reaction to it. It makes sense that he’d broach the subject, especially given how big having children is. His nervous still bothers me though. Likely it takes away from their relationship being one that’s secured and healthily established.
Idk. It bothered me.
I do get what you mean tbh, but imo it's something that would be more personal, in a sense? Like, there are people who would still get scared of big changes or big decisions regardless of how healthy their relationship is, because it's more about how their brain functions rather than because they've been given a reason to feel that way. Sometimes too, people will just make a "bigger deal" out of something in their minds and later realize they didn't need to be that nervous in the first place. The human brain is a finicky thing lol
Y’all, do people just not have a fear of STDs? I’m being serious here. The data show that even syphilis—SYPHILIS—is on the climb. Not to mention all the other deadly diseases that no one seems to care about. Reading this story had me realizing that people like these characters exist.
Y’all be safe out here. For real. I beg.
Dude, people like you give me hope ;-;
I am glad to see people talking about the dangers of reckless sex.
i doubt ppl that use mangago are having sex...
but yes ive seen so many manhwas where they act like stds just don't exist and it's lowkey insane how the most "fuckboy" type character will fuck some poor guy he doesn't know raw with no consent like dude ik you have a cocktail of diseases pls use protection
Like, I want him. I do. Just him.
He’s big, good with his hands (building stuff), and is a good homemaker (cleaning and cooking). I’d give him everything.
I want him.
he breaks the wall (and the bed too in future) so thats a plus
I don’t know why this story annoys me. I am reading two other stories by this author/artist, and I love the art and the plots and characters are interesting and funny. However, something about this story pisses me off. Sugar Trap’s characters are more ludicrous and frustrating, but I love that story so much more than this one—I just can’t place why this story leaves me so irate.
Maybe I need to just let it marinate.
im pretty sure sugar trap's author and diss love's author r different
I just need to know how this story ends. I can’t picture a happy ending or ML (i.e., Hyung) falling in love with crazy asa MC.
Anyone knows if the English translations have been published? I want to
Same here! I'd love a physical copy too so I'll leave a comment incase somebody knows
English physical translations will be available in May this year! I look forward to it too
OMG YESSSSS THANK YOU FOR THE INFO I CANNOT WAIT
Oh yay! Just asked so.rone before I saw this!
I know far too many feminine gay men who are proudly men for y’all to camp in this comment section, misgender a character with your whole chest, and not see anything wrong with it. The only justification offered seems to be that he likes cute, “feminine” things and once expressed wishing he were a “girl” so he could be more accepted in a binary country and society like Japan. Do y’all hear yourselves? Are we seriously equating someone’s preferences or self-expression with their gender identity?
Let’s pause and reflect—do we agree or disagree that being a woman is defined by liking certain things or behaving in a specific way? Are we still clinging to outdated ideas of a rigid binary, or do we accept that identity and expression exist on a spectrum? Y’all have to choose. Let’s not reduce people to stereotypes. If everyone thought like y’all, I’d have to pack my bag and stop being a woman because, like all of you all, I’m not a stereotype.
Y’all are a confusing lot.
I disliked by accident Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
I totally agree. People have been trying to squash gender stereotypes for so long, gay/straight stereotypes too. But then I see this or the discussion in Blue Period or even Persona 4 still going on today where people are (knowingly or unknowingly) upholding those same stereotypes. I'm so confuzed (o~0||)
I agree to an extent. This story is about a gay man struggling with shame over his feminine interests and personality, and that shame stems from a society that doesn’t normalize men liking these things. Equating men with feminine interests to being trans oversimplifies things and saying things like "Oh, that must mean they’re actually a woman" ignores how diverse humans identities and experiences are. Everyone should be free to enjoy what they love without having their identity questioned.
That said, the story IS unclear about Sakura’s gender identity. Yousuke has multiple thoughts about Sakura like "His rooms like a girls" and "I don’t know if this is just having girly interests or being a girl" and "he’s been a girl this whole time". These are lines intentionally added by the author and even by the end of the story Yousuke seems to consider Sakura as a girl. Sakura also said "I feel like a princess, that makes me happy" and he enjoyed being called a princess by Yousuke throughout the story. There was more dialogue like that too, so I can see why some would interpret Sakura as trans, and the author just added to the confusion and ambiguity of the character, but maybe that was the intention. Regardless, the trans assumptions definitely aren't out of nowhere or solely because of his feminine interests.
Preach!! 100% agree
The art got better as the story progressed. That’s it.