
I’m confused-_- he ended things with Ajusshi because he was being to clingy &&’ was basically stalking him but then he finds out Ajusshi used to be in love with his dad so now he feels like a replacement(● ̄(エ) ̄●) like dude please make up your mind you either think he loves you to much or doesn’t love you at all

He din't end things because Ajusshi loved him too much or was to clingy. He was angry because Ajusshi didn't trust him and therefor stalked him. He even tried to seperate him from his friends. On top of that Ajusshi never really apologized for it. Instead he, once again, didn't take Yoon-il's feelings seriously and tried to play it down like stalking and manipulating your boyfriend is no big deal.

The tragedy is that Ajusshi really did fall in love with Yoo-il, but his insecurities manifested in toxic ways. Then again, he wouldn't have had a broken heart and his life disrupted if the young guy had not been so persistent. Sad all around.
Some real talk and openness would have done a lot to make this work out--Ahjusshi admitting the father was his first love, but assuring Yoo-il that he sees him as his own individual person, not his dad's replacement.
Well, I still feel more sorry for the old man. He was alone, then he was pursued, then he was constantly in emotional turmoils, and then he was dumped. Ah, well.

If I am Ajusshi and has his personality, I'll do the same.
I mean, to suddenly fell in love with a much younger guy that happened to be your crush's son? That's a lot of confusion for such a less confidence old man.
Both of them are wrong, Yoo-il acts like a brat when he should have matured enough. The ajusshi is just so confuse he needs to be clear about what he wants of what he feels.

To me Ajusshi is the spoiled brat here. He took advantage of Yoo-Il's feelings and used him as a replacement (at first, he might love Yoo-Il now), he never took Yoo-Il's feelings seriously and when he did something wrong he either made up shitty excuses and refused to take actual responisbility for it or sank into self-pity (until ch.23).
When they started this relationship Ajusshi already decided that it wasn't going to last forever. If he had given Yoo-Il a real chance, if he had trusted him and seen him as an equal partner this story would've been different.
John legit only gives a fuck when it comes to sera but besides that this chapter was heart raising but also stupid like homie why would you leave sera like that (● ̄(エ) ̄●)
Uh, why not ask ARLO that question, mmkay? Thanks.
If you were, that was not clear, thanks, again.