
I'm really pissed to some of y'all for using "he acts liked that because he has a traumatic childhood!" like bitch stop using the word 'trauma', just because Yahwi's attitude is like that, like wth! it's not like that! he's literally just a "Jerk"

when someone has a trauma their trauma can affect them differently. For an example, somebody who's been abused and lost their trust from alot of people it can isolate them from other people, some people may be scared or frightened about people, they may push their love ones out of their lives and act cold to them. Alot of parents who abuse their children, half of the times the children will grow up and start abusing their own child too. So when people use stuff like oh well he had trauma yeah it is no excuse but it still is a reason why most people act the way they do. Nobodys trying to use his trauma to defend him. But does he have trauma yes he does, is this most likely one of the reasons he acts like this? yes. I see so many people comparing their siblings or their friends saying "Oh my friend has trauma blah blah blah and you don't see him doing that stuff" Of course because their both different people they both suffer from their different trauma. trauma affects people different. so none of us should expect people to just come out all happy and treat everything rainbows and butterflys when somebody has their traua

I fully understand what you're saying and I agree with you but I hate it when people use it as an excuse and defend Yahwi by using his trauma for what he is doing, I know Yahwi has trauma but his whole personality/attitude won't just revolve on that trauma. Cause I too have trauma but I don't use it as an excuse for what I'm doing

like some of y'all probably will not like this, but like the father of Ci Nian is wishing for a grandson right? then I have this scene in my head that
"Ci Nian is shopping with Wo wo to buy some groceries or toys and then Ci Nian's Father saw him with Wo Wo, and couldn't believe it because he think that Ci Nian was dead in prison, and then he called Ci Nian's name to make sure if it really is him and ci nian heard that someone is calling him and thought to himself that it's a familiar voice that he heard before, but then he heard it again the voice that is calling his name and then he was shock cause the voice that he was hearing was from the Father that he has dispised/dislike/hate but he didn't waver for his Father cause of what he did so they keep walking to the exit but his father didn't stop following and calling his name, so Wo Wo asked Ci Nian "Who is that old man that keep calling for you papa?" Ci Nian answered "I DON'T know him little brat", then Ci Nian's father heard what Wo Wo said then he asked Ci Nian "is it true that you're the father of the child?" Ci Nian answered "it's nowhere near for you to know if this child is mine or not! so excuse us for we are leaving Goodbye" so Ci Nian and Wo Wo go straight to the exit and leave the mall.
I hope some of you can understand and hope it makes sense

do not read if you don't wanna be spoiled
disclaimer is that this spoiler isn't mine and has it rightful owner, I was just wanna share it to you cause it's pretty old and i just copy and paste it.
here is the link for the rightful owner of this spoiler http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/8715604/
This manga is based on a korean novel <methods of breaking up> you can read it in ridibooks but it’s not free.
This is good manga cause the writer was very good in writing the emotion of the characters.
The Ex actually love and still love the Mc, in the novel his emotions was written nicely and he was confuse. He did not actually wished to have relationship with the new Boyfriend. He had a accident with the boyfriend when The Mc was missing. Due to depression he gets drunk everytime the Mc will go to battlefield cause he is a war reporter and The New boyfriend is His friend who would always comfort him. The New Boyfriend loves the Ex for 10years but Ex only love Mc. So when Mc got in an coma Ex was really depressed and suicidal, Then when he got drunk he mistook The new boyfriend as Mc and slept with him. The new boyfriend was desperate and saw this as a chance.
When the Ex woke up from being drunk, He then have relationship with the new boyfriend cause of guilt, but Mc showed up regained from his coma. When he knew Mc had coma he felt more Guilt everytime he see Mc he feels guilty and he knows he still loves the Mc but also didn’t want to hurt the new boyfriend. The Boyfriend know that Ex loves Mc thus he will be insecure.

Mc will have a hard time moving on will be very selfish and will try to talk and talk again to Ex to wanting to go back in relationship, he will also ask the New boyfriend to break up with Ex.
Mc will then be scolded by Ex and will be sad boi, the president will then propose a physical relationship with Mc to help him move on. The president kept helping Mc and Mc family cause Mc reminds him of his friend who died as a reporter by going to war.
So Mc and President will become sex buddy and Mc will then in the process will understand the Ex choice of moving on cause if you have someone By your side while being depressed you will like the way they care about you.
I want to know if Ci Nian's Father and Him meet cause i want to see the drama
lmaooo i want him to die regretting what he did to Ci Nian (his own child) for eternity
I think the same to but i just have this 1 whole scenario about them in my mind that has been playing. http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/10666347/ read this if you wanna fully understand what I meant
Woow it will be fire ! *w*