I personally think Mr.Lim is too selfish tbh,i get that he'd be insecure with the age gap and all but that doesnt give him the right to be so brutal to Yeoreum,who was trying to make the relationship work. If he didnt want the relationship to continue he shouldve at least explain it in a way the other person doesnt get hurt. I feel bad for both of them but Yeoreum got the short end of the stick. ╥﹏╥
either way yeoreum was gonna get hurt, he's not selfish he's just concerned. you have to keep in mind the age gap between them is a LOT, one is in their 20's while the other is 40. hes not selfish for that, i agree he should of communicated better but mr.lim is AFRAID, he's afraid of how people will view their relationship, how people will view HIM.
The opposite, selfish would be to go into a relationship with a kid without considering the huge gap
And don't get me wrong, I love Yeoreum BUT "making the relationship work" is not the word I'd use and it's PRECISELY HERE where us (+30s people) can understand Mr Lim concerns, Yeoreum way of acting in this relationship were selfish (proper of someone of his age!!); pushing and pressing, deciding about the month from the begging, not considering places as a h0rny kid (the park, every time in the room, the OFFICE!) and YES, mr Lim could have just say no and be firm but true is that IF he'd be dating someone his age he'd not NEED to explain why doing it at the office is wrong
But it's the problem when you date a kid...and I can continue with the examples









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