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He then joked about being the cherry popper since he’d been a lot of people’s first. Extra creepy now looking at it now since I was 19 and he was in his mid 20s at the time ☠

That’s so creepy I’m scared now, I’m still a virgin at 18 for the same creepy stories I’ve heard

I’d say: just go with someone you trust like a friend or in a relationship and you should be ok. I went with someone I’d met like a week before at a party. Take it as slow as you want and communicate if you’re uncomfortable at any time. Also I didn’t know this until much later but if they’re doing it right it should NOT hurt. Don’t feel pressured to just get it over with since that’s what societal pressures tell you, go at your own pace and understand that the first couple of times even with someone you really know it’s probably going to be awkward and that’s ok

Yes!! Heavy on it should NOT hurt. I hear so many horrible stories about peoples first time hurting, it's on the men.

Not to invalidate survivors and people who are uncomfortable with whats happening-- Yiyoungs experience is not rape.

He's been literally fantasizing about this kind of situation for their entire relationship. The writing here is purposefully being vague, with a lot of "oh no, please stop" but I promise you this isn't a typical BL/Yaoi SA scene.
Yiyoung is having a great time, but Kang is going to feel bad about it after *because* Yiyoung was saying "omg no don't do it"

Yiyoung is a kinky little freak, he likes dub con

this is so odd to me, cuz to my knowledge they’ve never discussed this w each other (lmk if i’m wrong) which would classify this as rape. just bc u fantasize smth, unless it’s communicated to ur partner, it’s unconsensual

More people would be convinced if we get clarification in the next chapters about Yiyoung's POV, or if they talked about this prior, etc. I do agree that it is a bit uncomfortable to not hear his actual consent before this. But even if it's still rapey, I'm honestly not surprised. We get "jealous sex" all the time. I suggest people to STOP READING if they can't handle this in a fictional BL story.

Uuhhh...fatasies and reality are two different things, you know that right??? CONSENT IS NOT A MATTER YOU CAN BRUSH OFF..

Yiyoung never mentioned it to Kang before.. (=・﹏・=)

I am part of the BDSM community, there's a type of play called CNC, this would enter in that, but you need to have a previous conversation with established boundaries, safe words and consent. None of this is happening here, there has not been a previous conversation where they agreed to this type of play. (To add to this, there is no safe play in BDSM, you can just make it safer).

This is rape, please note that the seme is forcing the uke due to his jealousy. This is something that happens a lot in real life in abusive relationships.

The only reason why the uke is enjoying it like this is because the author's depiction and preferences. BL has a history of being really problematic on rape sequences even selling them as "romantic".

Please understand that this is not okay, and it only "works" because it is fiction.

Jeez stfu with all this yapping girl 99% of yaoi shii have rape plot and i am sure you already know that and guess what you would've stopped reading this typa shiit if you really cared but y'all just love to make a scene with your yapping and honestly rape leaves trauma on the victims not let them enjoy it

And as per the raws yiyoung loved the sex so how tf is it rape bruh like make it makes sense, some people have a kink called angry or possesive sex and that's what it is!

You clearly don't understand anything about kink and consent! Why are you so triggered from this?

I have been reading BL for decades, so I know and I have read a lot of problematic stuff, understanding that it is fiction, and being aware of that SA is shown as something almost romantic or "okay" because at the end they agree to it or they like it... As shown in the raws.

I just like to bring awareness, as there is a lot of young people in this page who do not understand and think that a situation like this is okay in real life. If you are triggered by it, well you could check yourself why is that! And stop being rude just because you don't agree with someone! ╮(￣▽￣)╭

If someone is triggered then it's you and yapping all this shit when you can just stop reading if you find something problematic,but guess what you just love to act moral police here and what awareness lmao?you can see in the comments just how many people are into this type of shii so stop pushing your so called morality onto others and let them enjoy go and take some water and rest cause it clearly shows how worked up you're over this

This is not about morality. Anyone can read whatever they like, and they can enjoy it or not is up to them. Also, I will not judge people for enjoying a certain type of media or scenarios. However, I find important to clarify in some situations when people don't realize that a situation wouldn't be okay in real life and it only works, specially for young people. I do this as I enjoy sharing real knowledge about kink and BDSM so people can be safer out there. Again, why does that bother you? You can enjoy the title, but it is important to be able to recognize when a situation presented wouldn't be okay in real life! That's it! Hope that you are safe out there ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Kinda depends tho, seemed like mc wasn't too thrilled being a sex worker since he mentioned being broke so maybe it's a win-win situation if he quit. Plus ml's rich haha

does your lack of reading comprehension affect your daily life?

Inwoo has expressed multiple times both verbally and physically that he doesn’t want to see his mother. He’s shown Jiho how horrifically it affects his mental wellbeing by being around her, especially when he’s not given prior notice. Jiho says he understands this and apologized and yet despite all of that he is once again doing it. This flagrant negligence is abuse, plain and simple. Maybe you don’t recognize it because you’ve never had to experience it and I truly hope that you never do

I guess it seems that way when you only see everything in black and white and are projecting

It seems like you’re invalidating and minimizing trauma. This isn’t black and white since Inwoo has expressed a multitude of times that this is harmful to him. But sure, go ahead and invalidate this past and present trauma

I'm not invalidating inwoo's trauma I'm calling your reading of it dumb, hope that helps

Shouldn't that have been implied to you instead? It seems you need to work on your reading skills. Just because it's not real doesn't mean it doesn't happen in real life. It does, and it's abuse. I bet you're probably like Jihoo and don’t understand why people cut off contact because of what their parents did. I’m sorry that your happy family didn’t help you understand the male lead’s perspective and why we don’t like Jihoo

you should get into writing fanfiction, you're great at making shit up

there's a difference in saying "hey I think your interpretation of this story sucks" and denying real life abuse happening. I'm saying your interpretation of the story is dumb, one sided and lacking nuance. if you can't tell the difference between a person saying "wow your opinion on this fictional story sucks" and a person saying that abuse is not real then I cannot help you. but nice little rpf you write there, you really saw a sentence and came up a whole ass strawman to be mad at! good job, you're very creative

Lol not very demure stay true on focusing on to better improve yourself cus it look like you need it. And maybe take some anger management classes

you're really so good at making shit up, what's your ao3 handle? or are you more of a wattpad type?

I think of Hongyeon in the first season vs Hongyeon in the second season as two completely different characters. In the first season he does get jealous but only cause Jaeho provokes him. Second season he's allllll over the place. My take is that the author wanted to milk the story after a successful season 1 but had 0 plans for a second season cause they never planned to get that far. So we just ended up with wtv the fuck is going on rn.

That seems like an accurate assessment.

Exactly! I've read too many comments on other stories where people excuse sexual assault or attack people who call it out. That is really harmful and says a lot about those people and society as a whole. Sexual assault is always wrong and I'm glad people here are calling that out. I hope more people start calling it out in other stories and writers realize it ruins otherwise decent stories.